Cremas & Coquito- Doing Life

Cremas & Coquito- Doing Life

by Napoleon and Kristina Metelus

Mental Health Relationships Personal Journals

Season 1

Taking a Break in a Relationship

Relationships take work but sometimes it can be overwhelming and the people involved may need a break. A break looks different for men and women. Rules will need to be established during the break. Taking a break or giving your partner space comes in different forms. Some include sleeping in different rooms, taking a walk to drive to clear your head or a break for an extended period of time. On this episode we discuss breaks in long term relationships and marriages.

Parenting Styles and its Effects on a Relationships

Fathers and mothers love their children but when it comes to raising them this may cause some conflict. Fathers can be too stern and prioritize order and discipline while mothers tend to be nurturing and prioritize love and comfort. Children need to see both of these points of views work in tandem to learn valuable lessons and adjust to different personalities. No one parent has the right parenting style. It takes both the ying and the yang from mothers and fathers to raise a balanced Human Being.

Couples Conversation with Adrian and Jasmine

On this episode Kristina and Napoleon hosted A Brooks World- Adrian and Jasmine Brooks. We have real conversations around what marriage looks like, the roles and responsibilities, How finances are handled, resolving conflict, in laws and much more. Listen to how all relationships have issues but the kind of issues that happy couple have differ. Listen to the family dynamics and role that in laws play in our relationships.

Toxic Femininity- What is it?

Toxic Femininity - a phenomenon that is well known to men. We are finally breaking the chains and discussing ALL things toxic when it comes to women's expectations of men and how men are treated in relationships. Did you know men are now committing suicide at alarming rates? Have you stopped to wonder why that is? What are men experiencing at home and in their relationships that are making them turn to such drastic measures? Can women independence and a non toxic relationship coexist? In this episode we clarify what toxic femininity looks like and uncover some ways women are and have been toxic.

Conversation with Victoria- Low EQ and its Effects on a Relationship

It is important that both individuals in a relationship have emotional Intelligence. This skill is needed to in order to recognize when you have offended someone or when your behavior is too much for your spouse. There are many people who have not addressed their past traumas and have not been taught to deal with their emotions in a healthy way. In this episode, we speak to Victoria who is a relationship with a High earner that has a Low EQ and the effects it has on her.

What is Cheating

On this episode we discuss what cheating is from a man and a woman's point of view. Cheating is an act that violates trust and shapes how we view the person who committed this act against us. Our relationship with sex and the boundaries that we set for our selves are good starting points to understand why we do what we do feel that instant gratification. Listen in and discuss your thoughts on Cheating in a committed relationship.

Smooth, Valued and Single Man looking for Love- The Crispin Booker Interview

A 35 year old single man's take on how being a nice guy has affected his overall goal of being married and having children. In this interview we go in depth about the type of women he attracts, why he attracts those women, and his point of view on why his relationships have failed. Through it all Crispin still maintains a positive attitude towards achieving the outcome he desires.

What Women Want in a Relationship

Although the lines are blurred when it comes to needs and roles in a relationship, Women have specific needs that have to be met in order to have a successful relationship. Some of those needs are provision, protection and security. On this episode Napoleon and Kristina discuss what Women expect from the Men they choose to do Life with.

Why Modern Marriages Don't Last

Marriage is a sacred union that is meant to be taken seriously. Divorce rates are at an all time high because we have false expectations about what it take to Do Life with someone. In this episode we discuss why modern marriages do not last.

What Men Want from Women in a Relationship

In this episode Napoleon and Kristina discuss what men want from women in a committed relationship. When men do not receive what they want in a relationship they do not stay, unless it is their only option at the time. Listening and understanding what men want will be a great starting point to healing the separation that plaques our community.

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