

How to Talk to Your Partner: The Vent Sesh That Fixes Communication (Coffee Walk MD)
Coffee Walk MD by Brian Kendall
S2 · E3
Sep 28, 2026
25:15
Episode notes
Want better conversations with your partner? Start by clearing what's in the way. Dr. Brittany Bankhead and Dr. Brian Kendall walk through three of their go-to talking points: "What's on your mind?", "vent sesh", and "current events". They also explain why the first two often unlock topics unlock deeper conversations.
Key topics
- "What's on your mind?" Going past "work is fine, work is busy" to what you're really thinking about on your commute or the second you wake up.
- The vent sesh (a fan favorite). Say "all right, vent sesh" and get it off your chest, no matter how small or silly it feels.
- Current events, their way. Brian brings space and constituents; Brittany brings Bravo TV. They keep each other relevant.
- Why venting helps connection. The thing replaying in your head can block better conversation. Once it's out, new conversations open up.
Links
- modernmomalchemy.com
- bbankheadmd.substack.com
- Watch our TEDx talk here: https://youtu.be/rUVWb7wfLDE?si=k82P63WkqhA989M5
Keywords
coffee
relationship
lifestyle
married doctors
physician podcast
ER and trauma
parenting podcast
marriage and medicine
doctor parents
communication
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