Love After Loss and Divorce: How ...

Love After Loss and Divorce: How They Blended a Family of 7 | Terrence and Trevor Payton

Chasing Glass by Kaduvamma
S1 · E8
Sep 30, 2026
01:08:02

Episode notes

He met her when she was 8 months pregnant. Years later, after he lost his wife and she went through a divorce, one bouquet of flowers brought them back together.

This is a story about love after loss, blended families, faith, and learning your self worth. On this episode of Chasing Glass, I sit down with Terrence Payton, host of Jus Relationship, and his wife Trevor M. Payton.

Terrence has trained people in leadership, emotional intelligence, and mental health. He almost didn't start his podcast. He thought it was fear. It turned out to be his self worth. Trevor almost said no to sharing their story at all.

Together they have 7 kids and one blended family. They told me everything. How they went from FedEx coworkers to friends to married. Why they never say stepfamily. What it took for Trevor to leave a marriage with three kids. And what it feels like when your grown kids stop needing you the same way.

Do you believe love can find you twice? Tell me in the comments.

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