Episode notes
Dr Alexander Stevens II joins Ivan on the Authentic Leadership Podcast for a powerful conversation that begins with a heartfelt celebration of his PhD achievement and the story behind his full name, then unfolds into a deeply human journey of purpose, identity, and service.
Alexander shares how growing up around domestic violence, mental health challenges, and later experiencing firsthand exposure to sexual violence disclosures shaped the path he chose, and why he committed his life to supporting others through trauma, addiction, and recovery. He speaks candidly about navigating racism and bias in Aotearoa, why Māori often have to work “three to four times harder,” and how dignity, mana, and strategic restraint can be a form of strength.
A major focus is his PhD in sexual violence recovery and the gap he saw for men—especially Māori and other diverse communities—who disclose abuse but don’t know where to go for support. This led to the creation of StandingTallNZ (standingtallnz.org), a resource designed to meet people with safety, clarity, and cultural understanding, without triggering them. Alexander also explains the battle of doing kaupapa Māori work within Western academic systems and why preserving people’s authentic voices matters, even when institutions push back.
The episode closes with warmth, humour, and reflection: what Alexander would tell his younger self, what he wants Māori to remember in difficult times, and a grounding serenity prayer offered as a closing karakia.