In this heartfelt conversation, Lara and Mary return after a year-long pause to reflect on the transitional journeys they’ve each faced as ALS caregivers. Both of their husbands, coincidentally named Tom, served as veterans and live(d) with ALS—Tom Garey, who passed more than three years ago, and Tom Ward, who continues to fight the disease.

Lara shares how this past year has brought her moments of joy, both in everyday life and in unexpected ways, offering hope and resilience in life after caregiving. Mary opens up about the increasing challenges of being the sole caregiver for her husband and how the addition of skilled care a few afternoons a week has begun to transform her days. With this support, she is rediscovering pieces of herself, reclaiming her own identity.

Together, Lara and Mary speak candidly about grief, growth, ...