Romance fraud is not about stupidity. It targets trust, attachment, hope & the human wish to be seen.

In this episode of The Connection Audit, Kirsten & Blake audit what happens when connection becomes extraction. We look at how scam behaviour can appear emotionally fluent, patient, values-led, sexually plausible & even respectful at first — before money, crypto, gift cards, identity documents, urgent favours, secrecy, off-platform pressure or sexual-image coercion enter the conversation.

This is not a fear-led episode. It is a practical, compassionate look at staged trust capture: accelerated intimacy, plausible distance, secrecy, urgency, shame, & why capable people can become caught in a pattern that feels less like a transaction & more like protecting a relationship.

We also explore why ENM, CNM, swinging ...