He Checked My Phone, Snitching on Cheating Friends, and Furniture Excitement

Is checking your partner’s phone a red flag… or just due diligence?

When we first started dating, Augustus checked Alexis’s phone and didn’t see it as a privacy violation — to him, it was a necessary background check. Alexis strongly disagreed.

In this episode, we unpack phone privacy, trust, cultural expectations, and where boundaries should exist in relationships.

This isn’t about right vs wrong, it’s about perspective.

Do you believe couples should have phone privacy, or full transparency?