Notas del episodio
Paul O'Connell has spent over 20 years in corporate general management and another 20 coaching executives and teams in construction and tech. And looking back across all of it, the pattern is clear: when he was at his best and creating the most clients, he wasn't selling. He was listening.
Paul is an executive and team coach who works with small to medium-sized businesses and has coached leaders at every level of organization. In this conversation, he and James explore what it actually means to show up to a conversation without an agenda — why the quality of your listening determines the quality of what becomes possible, and how being fully present with someone creates the kind of fresh thinking that no pitch ever could. Paul also shares what he's learned about bridging the gap between how organizations think about their problems strategically and how coaching actually solves them — including a conversation with a founder whose misaligned team was costing them over a hundred million in valuation.
They also get into what it looks like to build a corporate coaching practice through referrals and genuine connection, how to challenge a client's thinking in a way that opens them up rather than closing them down, and why being gentle with yourself when you notice you've slipped into sales mode is the fastest way back to genuine service.
If you've ever noticed that your best client conversations happen when you're not trying to get anything — this episode names exactly why that is.
If this resonated and you're ready to explore what's possible for you and your business, reach out to James at JMWightman.com.
Connect with Paul: linkedin.com/in/paulkoconnell
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