Have you ever felt like your spouse doesn’t really understand what you need to feel loved? Or felt emotionally empty even though they’re physically present? His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley Jr. shows how to close the distance by understanding and meeting each other’s deepest emotional needs.

In Podcast 37 we explore the powerful “Love Bank” concept — every interaction is either a deposit or a withdrawal. When the balance drops, emotional distance, resentment, and even affairs can grow. The book clearly outlines the top needs for husbands and wives and gives practical ways to rebuild love and closeness.

We break it down through the 3 Steps to Flow in God framework:

• Shift your attitude from criticism or withdrawal to appreciation and caring communication
• Renew your belief by truly un ...