People keep asking the same lazy question: Why are marriages ending more than ever? The usual cultural answer comes fast and critical: women don’t want to endure anymore, everyone gives up too easily, and everyone just wants a soft life. But let’s say this plainly because clarity saves lives: marriages are not ending because people hate commitment; marriages are ending because people are done dying quietly inside commitment.

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