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" Where are Your Diamonds" Podcast

" Where are Your Diamonds" Podcast

by Santanna Tiara Dickens

Season 4

Episode 4: The Canaan Sprit : Domestic Violence

Season 3

Episode 3: The Confirmation Checklist

Episode 3: Coffee First Date w/ Potential Godly Man

The Pre- Accurate Interview

Episode 3: Dig Deeper Than The Surface

Season 2

Full Report: Communication and Biblical Relationship Takeway

Episode 2: Accountability ( Mother and Son)

Section 2: The Mother-Son Dynamic - Rebekah and Jacob Now let's look at another relationship that teaches us important lessons - the story of Rebekah and Jacob. This shows us how crucial maternal accountability is in preparing sons for godly relationships. Mothers, listen carefully: it's essential that you establish accountability for your sons at an early age. This preparation should cover their values formation, financial responsibility, emotional maturity, and building resilience. You're preparing them for godly courtship and marriage. But Rebekah made critical mistakes that we need to learn from. She had a favorite - Jacob - and she elevated him above both God and her husband Isaac in her priorities. This favoritism led to enabling destructive behavior. Jacob had serious character issues. He consistently wanted his way, even when it was unearned. He stole Esau's birthright through deception. Later, he had two wives but only loved Rachel, creating family dysfunction. His manipulative tendencies were rooted in patterns his mother allowed to develop. Instead of standing firm against Jacob's stealing and manipulation, Rebekah actually supported his wrongdoing. She failed to consult with her husband about their son's behavior and even helped Jacob deceive his father to obtain the blessing. The consequences were severe: Jacob had to flee from home, family dysfunction continued for generations, and there were ongoing issues within his bloodline.

Season 1

Lots Wife, Closing Doors: Open New Doors

Before we begin, I want to be clear about what this episode is and what it is not. This is not a bash session. This is not about pointing fingers or calling anyone a victim. This is about empowerment — for Black women and Black men — to stop the cycle of entering into relationships and spaces with people who are unhealed. . THE STORY: WHO WAS LOT'S WIFE? Open with the biblical account — Sodom was being destroyed. God sent two angels. Lot's family was told: leave and do not look back. His wife looked back — and became a pillar of salt. Key questions to raise with your audience: What was behind her that held more weight than the people in front of her? What do we think she was holding onto? Her house? Her community? Her comfort? Her memories? The point: it was not the city she looked back at. It was everything she had built her identity around. She could not let go — even with her future walking right beside her. Have you ever watched a hoarder house episode? You walk in and think — how did it get this bad? But look closer. Every item in that house is a memory. A feeling. A relationship. A time in their life they couldn't release. The house didn't get that way overnight." Now pivot: "Our minds can be hoarder houses. Every betrayal we kept. Every wound we never worked through. Every pattern we inherited and never examined. We pack it all in. And then we bring it — every box, every bag — into the next relationship." Before we renovate the house, can we think about a turnaround of the mind first? You cannot bring your past into your EZER — the strong helper, the woman you were created to be. The upgrade on the outside (new relationship, new season, new blessing) means nothing if the mind has not been cleared. Teach the Hebrew word EZER — used in Genesis 2 when God creates the woman. It means strong helper, a military word, a powerful word. The same word used for God being Israel's helper."You cannot step into who you were created to be while you are still turned around looking at who hurt you."For the women: EZER is your identity, not just your role. She is healed. She is clear-minded. She is forward-facing. You cannot be her and be frozen in what he did, what they said, what that season took from you. THE WORD FOR THE MEN: Cycles and Mental Health "This is not just a women's message. Black Men, hear this."For a man to walk into a godly marriage, a real covenant, a life with God at the center — the past has to stay in the past. Not just her past. His past too.Old mindsets about what a woman owes him Unhealed wounds from his mother, his childhood, his last relationship Patterns of control, avoidance, or emotional absence. You cannot lead a woman into her EZER if you are still spiritually and emotionally living on a street that God already told you to leave "We have to talk about mental health in our community without stigma. Unhealed trauma does not stay quiet. It shows up as rage, withdrawal, patterns of choosing the same unhealthy people, or tolerating what we know is wrong because at least it feels familiar." Lot's wife chose the familiar destruction over the unfamiliar freedom. That is what unhealed trauma does. It makes the burning city feel safer than the open road. Encourage your listeners: Therapy is not weakness — it is housecleaning for the mind. You cannot love someone well from a place of deep wounds. Wickedness and unchanged behavior are patterns, not personalities — but they must be named.

The Art of the Quiet Storm: Listen w/ Intent ( The Mystery in the Noise and Blended)

Dear Podcast Listners, Listen intensely to the words closely. I apologized, I am obedient, and because I have recorded by myself and clean with AI, its a little distorted and I will be working on fixing in hopes it will be cleaned properly. Here is the transcript: So, right about now? Come on in to the Podcast. Welcome Back. Where Are Your Diamonds? This segment is Where Are Your Diamonds University? The Art of The Chase. Be his peace. Why, be his peace? The bible explained in Proverbs 31:18, because a woman of God, will know she is not tradeable and profitable, you create vaule and not confusion with arguing, his calm with a resolute or he will resolved on his own. The lamp in the bedroom with his sexual desire for you does not go off, turn silence and your mystery with your profit - your apperance, all the noble things which makes Proverbs 31, especially, 29, explains- why you are the precious rubies. Recording explains about Florida, Representative Mia Jones, she spoke softly with her words, lawmaking decision in the laws and it other pause and listen and would not speak over her- your tone, your posture, your presence, has helped with Jacksonville, Florida, because she added vaule in her field of entitty. Captivate him, figure him out- not like Basbethba- the getting to know is everyday, real chemistry- for only your Ezer anoiting. Mary- this woman, didnt have any gifts, she was assigned a husband named Joseph and a powerful child - Jesus. Esther- this woman, her assignment was her beauty, to helped her people, she didnt have a husband, but her importance was her Uncle Morcedai and her wisdom to listen to God for the right timing lihe marriage- in this season. Ruth- this woman, her counsel is her mother, she confidently explained about marriage, she was noticed- she was outside, laboring, he found her- this assignment is different- God is his timing for women seeking God. Rebekah-this woman, she was married to Abraham, she only was assigned due to the promised for her son and her story- it was laws. Hosea & Gomer - this woman, assignment, she restore Isreal, allowed Hosea to listen and obey to return his wife for the greater good of wicked ways turning to righteousness- the assigned had her children names, God assigned people to be fulfilled for mankind for earth now to return back to holy people. India Arie expressed a song called " I see the God in YOU"- I wonder about these woman India Aria, her songs are so beautiful with meaning. The GOD, our god is powerful - mighty (Elohim), ( Number 23:19, our God is The Lord, (Exodus 6:2-3)he is divine person, our God wil provide our real needs,( Genesis 22:13-14), (Yahweh Shalom) our God is our peace. Judges 6:24.Yahweh Shammah, The Lord is There ( Ezekiel 48:35) God should be assigning you to one man which has the names of God, which these men should know God is the source.

Prayer and Clarity for ALL OF US: Where Are Your Diamonds?

Why are we still holding on to things that are quietly destroying us? We live in a time where there’s already enough weight—stress, illness, financial pressure, uncertainty. Yet many of us are still carrying unforgiveness, pain, and past experiences that continue to drain us. The question is… why? Is it fear of letting go? Is it the belief that if we release it, we lose control? Or is it deeper—struggling to trust that healing won’t leave us empty? Unforgiveness doesn’t just affect the heart—it affects the body, the mind, and the way we move through life. And at some point, we have to ask ourselves: is holding on protecting me, or is it harming me? And then there’s faith. Why is it sometimes difficult to believe that God will bring restoration after loss? That after hardship, something good can still come? We’ve seen challenges—especially within our communities. Economic hardship, job loss, shifting systems. It can shape how we see ourselves, how we see relationships, and what we believe we deserve. Some begin to question: Will things really get better? Can people truly grow and change? Is a healthy, stable, God-centered relationship still possible? But here’s the truth: what we’ve experienced can influence us, but it doesn’t have to define what’s possible. Releasing doesn’t mean forgetting. It means choosing not to let the past control your future. And believing again doesn’t mean ignoring reality. It means allowing space for something different to exist. So today, the real question is: What are you holding onto… that it’s time to release? Because healing, peace, and even love—require room to enter. And sometimes, that room is created the moment we finally let go.

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