Is It Them, or Is It My Trauma?
Explicit

Is It Them, or Is It My Trauma?

Explicit

Trauma, but Make it Cute by Kalyn and Cait

Episode notes

In this episode, we get real about that gut-twisting question so many of us have asked while stuck in a confusing connection. We break down the science behind trauma bonds, attachment styles, and toxic relationship cycles—and how they keep you spiraling, second-guessing your instincts, and blaming yourself when something feels off.

We talk about how manipulation can make you doubt your own reality, why your nervous system stays attached even when your mind knows better, and how past wounds can cloud (or sharpen) your perception. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re overreacting… or finally seeing things clearly—this one’s for you.

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