People pleasing is often mistaken for kindness, but it can be a trauma response rooted in fear. When love, acceptance, or safety once felt conditional, we may learn to put everyone else’s needs before our own. This episode explores how people pleasing develops, why setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable, and how healing begins by recognizing that your worth isn’t based on keeping everyone happy.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between genuine kindness and people pleasing
• How childhood experiences can shape people-pleasing behaviors
• Why saying “no” often feels uncomfortable or guilt-inducing
• How people pleasing affects identity, relationships, and self-worth
• Practical steps toward setting healthy boundaries and honoring your own needs

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