The Girlies Who Get It
Season 1
by Alonna Elaine
Successful women are tired. Tired of being the strong friend, tired of holding it together, tired of being everyone's soft place to land while still waiting for someone to make space for their own rest. In this episode, I'm walking through three identity shifts that I work through with my clients — the foundational, internal work that has to happen before love and dating even enter the conversation. We talk about breaking cycles you didn't even realize you inherited, learning to qualify the people you give access to, and giving yourself permission to play again. This one is personal. I share a little behind-the-scenes moment from my own life that reminded me why having the right partner beside you changes everything, and why it's never selfish to say "I'm not okay." As always, these messages are delivered with love, never judgment. If you're the kind of woman who is tired of carrying it all, this episode is for you. With love, Alonna xx
The women I know who build extraordinary lives usually have one thing in common: pain. But the difference isn't always what happened to them, it's what they decided to do with it. In this episode, I'm sharing the three perspective shifts that changed how I see trauma, success, healing, and personal power. Trauma can either become the thing that runs your life, or it can become your wisdom. The choice is in what you do with it. We talk about gifts born from protection, the difference between making trauma your personality versus your wisdom, and why your intention behind building your life matters more than people realize. These messages are always delivered with love, never judgment. If this resonates, I'd love to know: what's one experience that gave you a strength you deeply value now? 🔗 The Date Like A Wife Masterclass — learn the exact identity shift I teach my private 1:1 clients, live now: https://learn.alonnaelaineacademy.com/datelikeawifelive With love, Alonna xx
Today, we're discussing boundaries and how to establish them with toxic or narcissistic people who often invade your personal space. It's empowering to recognize that you deserve better and be willing to intentionally create that in your life. Life lessons are always stepping stones to our achievements. There's nothing in life that can't be used for our improvement. Times, when you wish you had clearer boundaries but didn't have them, are not moments to dismiss yourself or be unkind to your unique journey. We are doing the best we can until we know better, then we do better. As always, these messages are delivered with love, never judgment. See you in the next episode! Alonna xx
Welcome to episode one of 'The Girlies Who Get It Podcast'; I am so excited to share this space with you and create new avenues of creative exploration. Today's episode is about change, transformation, and using the last part of the year for exponential growth. We are going over three actionable steps to help move you forward with clarity and intentional purpose. As always, this message is sent with love. Listen to this message on a run, walk, or drive to work, and I will see you in the next episode!