You think assertiveness means being aggressive. So when you finally try to stand up for yourself, you either snap and burn bridges, or you shrink back into silence. Today we're unpacking the real difference between aggression and assertiveness — and introducing the Four Doors framework that shows you exactly which one you default to. Plus: six concrete strategies you can use this weekend. This episode is the foundation for the entire boundaries series dropping this month. Truth over comfort. No spiritual bypass.