The Resilient Rebel Show

The Resilient Rebel Show

by Elian Haan
Self-ImprovementMental Health
Season 1
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 7: BREAKING SHAME: Reclaiming My Identity with Heather Buzzard
In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, Elian Haan sits down with author, speaker, and spiritual coach Heather Buzzard to talk about resilience, identity, forgiveness, and breaking free from shame. Heather shares her extraordinary life story — growing up as a Black adopted child in a Caucasian family, navigating identity confusion, racial tension, rebellion, trauma, and ultimately finding healing through faith and forgiveness. This is a conversation about: ✨ Adoption and finding your birth parents ✨ Breaking generational patterns ✨ Overcoming shame and conditional love ✨ The courage to forgive ✨ Radical personal responsibility ✨ Faith as a foundation for resilience Heather also shares about her memoir Breaking Shame: Reclaiming My Identity and how writing her story helped her heal and empower others — especially adoptive children searching for belonging. If you've ever felt different… unseen… misunderstood… or burdened by shame — this episode is for you. You are not broken. You are becoming. 📚 Connect with Heather Buzzard: Website: https://buzzardskorner.com Book: Breaking Shame: Reclaiming My Identity https://a.co/d/0gQA3fra
S1 · E7
Feb 19, 2026
37:07
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 4: The Hidden Toll of People Pleasing
Topics Covered: The emotional & physical cost of people-pleasing How perfectionism often hides shame Why setting boundaries is an act of self-respect Practical breathwork & nervous system reset tools How to reframe self-compassion as strength Reclaiming visibility and speaking your truth Mentioned in this episode: Grounding practices for anxious moments Real-time nervous system regulation techniques The power of “I” statements in tough conversations How to spot burnout and emotional exhaustion early Why celebrating your small wins builds true confidence Want to work with Elian? Visit: https://www.elianhaan.net Instagram: @elianhaan Email: elianhaan@gmail.com Join my masterclass: https://masterclass.elianhaan.net/
S1 · E4
Aug 28, 2025
23:01
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 2: Done waiting on happiness
Done waiting for your life to feel right? In this raw and powerful episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, I'm going to share the moment everything cracked—and everything began. From burnout and perfectionism to panic and awakening, I open up about the day I stopped performing, stopped pretending, and finally chose myself. This isn’t about waiting for the world to change. It’s about changing from within. 🎙 In this episode: • The day I hit my breaking point • Why courage isn’t born, it’s built • How trauma, shame, and perfectionism keep us small • What it really means to rebel from within • The first steps to reclaiming your voice, power, and presence This is your invitation to stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and start becoming the version of you that you cannot wait to wake up to. 👇 Let us know in the comments: What are you done waiting for? 🧠 Listen. Reflect. Rise. 🎧 Subscribe to join the rebel movement and never miss a weekly reset. — 🔗 Connect with me: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Join my 5-week Masterclass 'The Freedom Formula': https://masterclass.elianhaan.net/
S1 · E2
Aug 26, 2025
11:46
Welcome to Resilient Rebel Show
This is The Resilient Rebel Show—and I’m Elian Haan. Let me be clear... This is not another show telling you to breathe deeper, hustle harder, or “just think positive.” Nope. This is a space for leaders, high-achievers, entrepreneurs, and truth-seekers who are DONE with burnout, DONE with playing small, and DONE waiting for permission to live fully and boldly. I created this show for the resilient rebels—the ones who’ve been knocked down, overlooked, dismissed… and still chose to rise. Each week, we’re diving into real conversations about: 🧠 Mental health without the sugarcoating 🔥 Resilience that starts in the body 🚫 Burnout that isn’t your fault 📣 Owning your voice, your time, and your damn worth …plus breath resets, mini challenges, and stories that crack you open—in the best way. This is personal. This is professional. This is transformational. Because healing isn’t soft—it’s savage work. And being unstoppable? That’s an inside job. So if you’re ready to ditch the grind and own your rhythm, to lead with presence not performance… then subscribe now and join the rebel movement. 💥 We’re not playing nice. We’re playing REAL. And it starts right here. Contact me https://www.elianhaan.net or https://calendly.com/coachelian
S1 · E1
Aug 18, 2025
7:12
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep.10 | The Art of Aging Pt.3: Micro-Renewals for Daily Resilience
Do you wait until you are completely exhausted before giving yourself permission to rest? Many people believe renewal requires a vacation, a full day off, or a major change in their schedule. But resilience is often built through much smaller moments. In Part 3 of The Resilience Reset, Elian Haan explores the power of micro-renewals—brief, intentional practices that help you return to yourself during a busy or stressful day. These moments do not need to be complicated. A few deep breaths before a meeting, relaxing your shoulders, drinking water slowly, adjusting your posture, stepping outside, taking a short walk, or sitting quietly for three minutes can help calm your nervous system and restore your energy. In this episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, Elian discusses: 1. Why you should not wait until exhaustion to care for yourself 2. How your body communicates stress and anxiety 3. Simple ways to pause between meetings and responsibilities 4. How breathing, hydration, posture, and movement support resilience 5. Why small, repeatable practices can help you respond instead of react This episode is for busy professionals, leaders, entrepreneurs, caregivers, and anyone who feels pressured to remain productive and available all the time. You do not always need a complete escape from your life. Sometimes, you simply need a few intentional moments within it. Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian Explore my work: https://paperbell.me/elian-haan
E10
Jul 23, 2026
10:41
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 9 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset Pt. 2
What if resilience isn't about pushing through? Welcome to Part 2 of The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset, a six-part series exploring what it really means to live with resilience, purpose, and wellbeing at every stage of life. For years, many of us believed resilience meant staying busy, staying strong, and never letting anyone see how exhausted we really were. But what if we've been measuring resilience the wrong way? In this episode, Elian Haan explores what current psychology and neuroscience reveal about stress, the nervous system, and our remarkable capacity to recover. Through personal insights, practical examples, and her experience as a trauma-informed executive coach, she introduces a healthier, more sustainable way of thinking about resilience. In this conversation, you'll discover: • Why chronic stress affects more than your productivity • How your nervous system responds to pressure • The difference between reacting and responding • The resilience cycle: Activation, Regulation, Recovery, Adaptation, and Renewal • Why recovery is not a reward for working harder, but an essential part of living well Whether you're navigating a demanding career, a season of transition, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pace of life, this episode offers a compassionate reminder that resilience isn't about becoming tougher. It's about learning how to return to yourself. If this conversation resonates with you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a comment, and share it with someone who could use the reminder that strength and gentleness can exist together. — The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset is a six-part series on The Resilient Rebel Show exploring practical, research-informed approaches to resilience, emotional well-being, and sustainable living. You can find a PDF copy of this handout here: https://creatyl.com/elianhaan Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian
E9
Jul 23, 2026
20:18
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 8 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset
What if resilience is not about pushing through, staying busy, or pretending you are fine? In Episode 8 of The Resilient Rebel Show, Elian Haan begins a new six-part series called The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset. In this opening episode, Elian explores a more human understanding of resilience. It is not the absence of struggle. It is our ability to move through stress with awareness, regulation, recovery, and renewal. You will learn: • Why resilience is more than simply “staying strong” • How chronic overload affects the mind, body, emotions, and nervous system • Why your body often responds before your mind understands what is happening • The difference between reacting and responding • How the resilience cycle moves through activation, regulation, recovery, adaptation, and renewal • Why aging is not about becoming less, but becoming more fully yourself Elian also introduces the five keys that will guide the rest of this series: Self-compassion Micro-renewals Boundaries Clarity, meaning, and purpose Rhythm, sleep, and recovery Life may not become easier, but we can become better equipped to meet it. This episode is an invitation to pause, listen to what your body is telling you, and begin building resilience in a way that is sustainable, compassionate, and practical. Subscribe and join Elian for the next five episodes of The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset. What does resilience mean to you at this stage of your life? You can find a PDF copy of this handout here: https://creatyl.com/elianhaan Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian
E8
Jun 26, 2026
20:18
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 6: Anxiety
Anxiety isn’t a flaw. It’s a function. And in this powerful episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, we’re unpacking the truth about anxiety—what it is, how it shows up in the body, and how you can finally stop fighting it and start working with it. Whether you’re feeling anxious, burnt out, overstimulated, or just tired of pretending you’re fine—this conversation is for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: • What anxiety actually is—and what it’s not • The difference between anxiety, fear, and burnout • Why your nervous system goes into overdrive • How to tell the difference between helpful and harmful anxiety • Signs of chronic anxiety in your body and mind • Simple somatic tools to reset your nervous system • Why “snapping out of it” doesn’t work—and what does • How to approach anxiety with compassion instead of shame This is not about diagnosing yourself. It’s about understanding the signals your body is sending—and learning how to respond with awareness and care. “Anxiety is information. It is not your identity.” If you’re ready to stop being ruled by anxiety and start feeling safe in your body again, this one is for you. 📩 Want coaching support through this season? Fall coaching spots are now open. Book a complimentary clarity call here: 🌐 https://www.elianhaan.net
E6
Oct 17, 2025
16:15
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 5: The Secret Surrender
Episode Summary: What if your next breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing harder—but from letting go? In this soulful and timely reflection, Elian invites you to slow down and honor the sacred energy of September and the lunar eclipse. This isn’t about astrology—it’s about awareness. It’s about reclaiming your peace, your energy, and your voice. You’ll be guided through five transformational themes designed to help you release control, reset your nervous system, and rise into a version of yourself that feels real, grounded, and free. In this episode, we explore: • The emotional and energetic power of letting go • How perfectionism and people-pleasing keep us stuck • Simple breathwork and nervous system resets • The difference between performing and being present • Journal prompts for release, rebirth, and reflection • What it means to lead with intuition and self-compassion • How to dissolve old stories and step into your truth This episode is for you if you’re feeling: • Drained from overdoing • Caught in self-doubt, shame, or pressure to be perfect •Ready to soften, surrender, and come back to yourself Mentioned in this episode: ✨ Breathwork practice (4-7-8 method) ✨ Morning journaling prompts for clarity ✨ Grounding tools for emotional overwhelm ✨ Free worksheet: Release & Rise (DM Elian to receive it) Want to work with Elian? Visit: https://www.elianhaan.net Instagram: @elianhaan Email: elianhaan@gmail.com Join my masterclass: https://masterclass.elianhaan.net/The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 5: The Secret Surrender
E5
Sep 10, 2025
17:01
The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 3: If There Is No Teacher, You'll Be The Teacher
This one’s straight from the heart. I spent years waiting for clarity, for the right relationship, the right job, the right timing. Until I realized… no one was coming. And I was the one holding myself back. In this episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, I talk about the moment I stopped waiting and started leading. Not perfectly. Not loudly. Just honestly. We talk about: Taking responsibility for your life Rebuilding self-trust Breaking old patterns And showing up—before you feel “ready” You don’t need a title to lead. You don’t need perfect conditions to start. You just need one clear moment of truth-and the courage to act on it.
Aug 21, 2025
17:49