Everyone says it's impossible to meet people in real life anymore.

But what if the problem isn't dating apps... it's that we've all become experts at looking unavailable?

In this episode of The Realistic Romantic, Drew explores the rise of "chalant dating" and why modern dating culture has convinced us that looking busy, emotionally detached, and effortlessly cool is somehow attractive.

From staring at our phones in coffee shops to wearing headphones everywhere we go, we've unintentionally built walls that keep genuine connection out. Drew shares why the people who want love the most are often the hardest people to approach, along with five practical ways to become more approachable without changing your personality.

If you're tired of dating apps, struggling to meet people organically, or ...