In this episode of The Psychology Undergrad, we analyze music and digital media as the unofficial curriculum of adolescent development. Drawing on neuroscience, attachment theory, content analyses of popular songs, and large-scale survey data, we show how music functions as a powerful tool for emotion regulation, identity formation, and social belonging—while simultaneously transmitting deeply dysfunctional models of love and sex. We break down why over 86% of romantic relationships portrayed in popular music reflect insecure attachment, how avoidant attachment is tied to sexualized lyrics, and how these scripts normalize coercion, blur consent, and reinforce gendered double standards. We then connect these messages to real adolescent behavior online—pornography use, sexting, privacy man ...