I Can’t Tell If I’m the Villain or Just Holding Boundaries
The CareForBrains Podcast by Tanmay Vasudeva
Episode notes
🎙️ Episode Summary: In this episode, Tanmay explores the emotional confusion that comes after setting boundaries. Why does doing something healthy sometimes feel… mean? Through storytelling and self-reflection, this episode dives into how saying “no” can trigger guilt, even when it’s the right choice.
🧠 Topics Covered:
- The guilt loop after setting boundaries
- The internal villain narrative we create
- Why people-pleasers struggle with saying “no”
- How to stop over-apologizing for basic needs
- Building emotional clarity in your relationships
💬 Best Quote: "Boundaries don’t make you a villain. They make you visible."
🎧 Mood: Vulnerable, affirming, reflective — like a gentle pep talk from someone who totally ...