Have you ever found yourself holding on to someone who gives you just enough hope to stay, but never enough consistency to feel secure?

In this episode of The Baggage Claim Podcast, Chelsea Simone dives into the painful cycle of choosing people who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unable to love us in the way we desire. We unpack why we sometimes confuse chemistry with inconsistency, become attached to someone’s potential instead of their reality, and keep waiting for someone to finally choose us.

Through conversations about attachment styles, emotional availability, abandonment wounds, and relationship patterns, we explore what it takes to stop chasing love that requires us to abandon ourselves.

Because sometimes the person you’re waiting for to choose you is the same person you need to stop choosi ...