What We Don’t Say About Rural Upb...
What We Don’t Say About Rural Upbringing: Violence, Fear, Death and Survivors Guilt
Soft Rebellion by Zintathu Mazamane
S1 · E26
Mar 19, 2026
40:08
Episode notes

This trip home really brought up a lot of childhood memories I had long forgotten about growing up in rural areas. Often, I think about my time there quite fondly. I romanticise it. But it occurred to me that I have been romanticising my experiences a lot, and it may have been in part, a survival tactic and the other part because the rural Eastern Cape is the only home I know.

I’m sure there’s a few of us who have survived some experience or period in our lives. My intention for this episode is that we reflect on how far we’ve come and how much distance we’ve put between our current life and the one we lived before. To be proud of that even in the process of striving for more. And more importantly, to think about ways in which we can help those left behind to follow in our footsteps and survive.

Keywords
Identity
Failure
Fear
Family
Mortality
Grief
Trauma
Detach
Loss
Rural Life