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41. How Cancel Culture Keeps People Who Cause Harm from Changing Their Ways, and What ACTUALLY Helps
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Self Centered™ with Katie and Allie by Katie Kurtz and Allie West
Episode notes
This episode is all about what actually supports growth and repair after harm, both for the person who was hurt and the person who caused it. We break down why cancel culture and rushed apologies often backfire, and what needs to be in place instead: psychological safety, time for reflection, and boundaries that protect without enabling. If you've ever questioned what real accountability should look like, this conversation offers a clear, grounded alternative.
YOU WILL LEARN:
- Why cancel culture fails to support true growth and repair
- How psychological safety, boundaries (including no-contact, if needed), and time are critical for genuine self-reflection
- The difference between shame and guilt, and why shame blocks ...
Keywords
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