This week on MONDAY, Dayanna and Monica get real about love by comparing their relationships: Dayanna as a married mother and Monica in her 6-month boyfriend phase. We talk through different scenarios to see how the "new love" and "long-term love" perspectives differ on everything from arguments to date night. We also dive into our past relationship trauma, offering advice on how to process old wounds and move forward confidently. Finally, we put our relationship instincts to the test with our signature "Green Flag or Red Flag?" questionnaire—you won't believe some of the scenarios we debate!