Most people today would say you can’t trust people with who you are so you should share as little as possible with necessity being the only reason to let someone in. The thing is when you lock yourself away to present only the shell of your armour you allow yourself to feel unseen, unheard, and alone, like you’re walking, robotically, through a fog. When you advocate for yourself, exposed without your armour, you must understand your worthiness, controlled disclosure, and how to be true to self. In the end there is only self to hold responsible for the life we live. People come and go, but you cannot leave yourself until death so you may as well make the journey of life enjoyable being who you are.