This week, Brittany & Shana rewind to their pre-wifed-up dating days — awkward texts, soulmate debates, and that one time Brittany nearly landed in a poly relationship without a clue.

They also break down romantic vs. nonchalant energy and where to take a date when you don’t want to be seen.

Lighthearted, honest, and just the right amount of side-eye. Press play.