We all want to paint the perfect idea in our minds that we are in a "good place" but the reality is, there is some massive pain and struggle we are not facing.Whether it's in the relationship with your parents, a partnership that isn't working and needs to dissolve, or your body that is overweight and you literally have a hard time getting out of bed in the morning.This pain is a compounding effect on everything you do and you keep hiding from the truth preventing you from ever getting any results.I kept lying in my farm operation and wasn't willing to face the facts until I got myself so far in the hole financially, I had no choice but to sell.When you stop hiding and face the facts, you can finally build on solid ground. Until then, you are just a man who is going to be destroyed when the first wave comes.