Faces of Divorce

Faces of Divorce

by Jadinah N. Gustave, Esq.
Self-ImprovementRelationships
Season 1
Called to Be Whole: Walking in Truth, Not Shame
He asked four times before she said yes. The fourth “yes” wasn’t rooted in love or clarity—it was wrapped in exhaustion and a haunting phrase: “I couldn’t find a reason to say no.” But her spirit already knew something wasn’t right. In this unforgettable episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney Jadinah Gustave sits down with a powerhouse woman of faith and leadership—a head of HR managing over 20 employees by day, and silently suffering in her marriage by night. What began as a hopeful union between two parents blending their daughters into one family quickly turned into a slow unraveling. By year one, her light began to dim. Her hair was falling out, her body was shutting down, and her spirit was breaking under the weight of emotional and spiritual disconnection. Friends noticed. Medical professionals grew concerned. But it wasn’t until God called her to a sacred sabbatical—with nothing but a board and the book Divorce Like a Boss—that she began to reclaim her life. This episode is more than a testimony. It is a mirror for every woman leading in public while bleeding in private. It’s for the ones asking God if the brokenness they’re in is still His will. It’s for the woman hiding her depression behind her title and her prayers behind her pillow. Because God doesn’t just call us to stay—He calls us to live. And sometimes, leaving is the doorway to finally being whole. Stay connected: Instagram: @facesofdivorce; @jadinahngustaveesq; Youtube: @attorneyj; Facebook: @jadinahgustave; Tiktok: @jadinahngustaveesq; www.attorneyjcoach.com Sponsor: Divorce L.A.B. Institute Reclaim your power with Divorce L.A.B. Institute! Helping women break free from toxic marriages with holistic support and expert legal insights. Your healing starts here. dlabinstitute.com RSSVERIFY
S1 · E11
May 13, 2025
1:56:38
Are You Ready or Just Rushing? Premarital Wisdom with Pastor and author John E. Pierre
What if love wasn’t the only requirement for marriage? What if timing, truth, and God’s will mattered more than your plans? In this episode of Faces of Divorce, host Jadinah Gustave sits down with Reverend John E. Pierre — a 37-year marriage veteran, author of Never Stop Exploring, and one of the most sought-after premarital counselors in the faith community. They dive deep into conversations rarely had from the pulpit: When to walk away before saying “I do” Why red flags are spiritual signals, not just personality quirks How trauma bonding can masquerade as connection The Church’s responsibility to restore, not shame, the divorced And how to truly explore your partner with intention and discernment Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or divorced, this conversation will give you clarity, compassion, and the courage to wait for God’s best. ✨ Bonus: Rev. Pierre also shares his upcoming second book “The 19 Indisputable Principles of Marriage” and his new podcast launch.
S1 · E10
May 6, 2025
1:41:50
Pay Up & Pray Up: What You Really Need to Know About Child Support & Alimony
In this solo episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney J dives deep into two of the most misunderstood financial pillars of divorce: child support and alimony. With a heart rooted in faith and a voice seasoned by years in the courtroom, Attorney J breaks down: What the court actually looks at when deciding payments Common myths that leave women stuck or silenced Why asking for what’s fair is not a sin — it’s stewardship How to stay prayerful and strategic in financial negotiations This is more than a legal talk — it’s a healing conversation for every woman navigating divorce while still holding onto her faith, her dignity, and her dreams. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about receiving support — or just unsure about your rights — this episode is your call to clarity. Sis, it’s time to stop shrinking and start securing what you and your children need. 🎧 Subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear the truth wrapped in grace.
S1 · E9
Apr 15, 2025
48:05
A Love That Lasted, A Marriage That Didn’t: Reflections 20 Years Later
What do you do with a love that didn’t survive, but never left your soul? In this powerful and emotionally rich episode of Faces of Divorce, one woman — a faith-filled leader, mother, and truth-teller — shares the deeply personal story of a relationship that began in young love, unraveled too soon, and resurfaced in the most unexpected way… two decades later. They were in love, but life was moving too fast. The relationship ended, and they spent ten years apart. He was called to war — and in those moments of near-loss, something shifted. They reconnected after life had already happened: marriages, children, mistakes, and growth. And yet, there was still something unfinished. Now, twenty years after their divorce, she reads — straight from her phone — the heartfelt message she recently sent her ex-husband. With emotion, grace, and humility, she takes accountability, honors their history, and reflects on the divine timing of healing. It's a testimony of surviving love, surviving war, and finding peace with the past. 💬 “Sometimes healing doesn’t mean going back. It means going deeper. It means telling the truth — to yourself, and to the one who once held your heart.” This is an episode for every woman who’s ever carried silent love, unspoken regret, or unfinished conversations. Because healing isn’t always loud — sometimes, it sounds like a text message sent with trembling hands and a whole lot of grace. Follow us at @facesofdivorcepodcast Episode Sponsors: The Sejour-Gustave Firm PLLC "Celebrating a decade of excellence, The Sejour-Gustave Firm provides award-winning estate planning and business legal services in Florida and Georgia. Secure your legacy with trusted expertise. thesgfirm.com" Divorce L.A.B. Institute "Reclaim your power with Divorce L.A.B. Institute! Helping women break free from toxic marriages with holistic support and expert legal insights. Your healing starts here. dlabinstitute.com" Ally Prestige Apparel "Style with significance! Ally Prestige Apparel celebrates and empowers paralegals, nurses, and all professional support staff with high-quality, meaningful fashion. Join the movement! allyprestigeapparel.com"
S1 · E8
Mar 26, 2025
1:23:46
Unshackled: Faith, Family & Finding Herself After 24 Years of Marriage
Beatrice Smith, She was the reliable one. The woman in ministry, the devoted wife, the mother who held it all together—until she couldn’t anymore. Married at just 20 to a man 15 years her senior, she entered a marriage she wasn’t fully prepared for, one that slowly chipped away at her identity. For 24 years, she lived in a cycle of duty, deep depression, and anxiety—fearing what her family, church, and community would say if she walked away. Infidelity on his part, emotional detachment on hers, and years of pretending left her feeling like a shell of herself. And yet, even when she finally told her teenage daughter about the divorce, the response shook her: “Finally…what took you so long?” In this episode, we dive deep into: 💔 The moment she realized her marriage was unraveling after just 5 years 💔 How she became a “robot in church,” performing but feeling empty inside 💔 The heavy weight of family and community expectations that kept her stuck 💔 Why she stayed for decades despite knowing the love was gone 💔 Losing her identity as a woman, wife, and mother—and the journey to reclaim it 💔 How faith sustained her even in the darkest moments of depression and anxiety 💔 What surviving looks like 5 years after the divorce This is a raw and real conversation about breaking free from fear, rediscovering identity, and healing after a lifetime of losing yourself in marriage. If you’ve ever felt trapped by expectations or struggled to recognize the woman staring back at you in the mirror, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen in, be encouraged, and know—you are not alone. 📢 Episode Sponsors: 1️⃣ The Sejour-Gustave Firm PLLC – Your trusted legal partner for estate planning, business structuring, and securing your legacy. Whether you're navigating divorce, setting up a trust, or ensuring your family's future, we provide the guidance and protection you need. Visit thesgfirm.com to learn more. 2️⃣ The Divorce Lab Institute – A research-based program helping women of faith heal, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. The Healor Program offers expert-led sessions, spiritual support, and real-life strategies for moving forward with confidence. Sign up today at dlabInstitute.com. 3️⃣ Ally Prestige Apparel – Ally Prestige Apparel celebrates and empowers paralegals and nurses with high-quality, meaningful fashion, Ally Prestige Apparel blends elegance with empowerment. Shop now at AllyPrestigeApparel.com.
S1 · E7
Mar 18, 2025
1:47:53
Expert Insights on Breaking the Cycle – Divorce, Childhood Patterns, and Healing with Jinia
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it shapes future relationships, impacts children’s emotional development, and influences how we communicate and resolve conflict. In this insightful conversation on Divorce Like a Boss, Jinia, a licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience, joins us to discuss: ✅ How childhood divorce impacts adult relationships ✅ Breaking generational patterns through self-awareness & therapy ✅ Effective communication and conflict resolution post-divorce ✅ The role of spirituality in healing and moving forward 💡 Whether you're navigating divorce, co-parenting, or seeking better relationship tools, this episode is filled with wisdom, practical steps, and encouragement to help you move forward with confidence and grace. 🎧 Listen now! [Insert podcast link] Follow & Connect with Jinia: 📌 Instagram: @awa.therapy 📌 Facebook: awatherapy 📌 LinkedIn: Jinia Williams 📌 Website: awatherapyccc.com Special Thanks to Our Sponsors! 🎙️ 💼 The SG Law Firm – Your trusted partner in estate planning, business law, and legacy protection. 🔗 www.sglawfirm.com | IG: @thesglawfirm 👗 Ally Prestige Apparel – Stylish, empowering fashion for the modern woman. 🔗 www.allyprestigeapparrel.com | IG: @allyprestigeapparel 💔 Divorce Lab Institute – Transforming the divorce journey with expert guidance and support. 🔗 www.divorcelabinstitute.com | IG: @dlabinstitute ✨ Don’t forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it! #DivorceLikeABoss #HealingAfterDivorce #FaithAndHealing #CoParenting #BreakingTheCycle #TherapyWorks #SelfAwareness
S1 · E6
Mar 11, 2025
1:25:16
Faith, Facts & Freedom: Breaking Divorce Myths & Protecting Your Future
Divorce isn’t the end of your story—it’s the beginning of your next chapter. In this powerful episode, Jadinah N Gustave, "AttorneyJ", legal expert, author of Divorce Like a Boss, and founder of Divorce Lab Institute, breaks down exactly how to navigate divorce with wisdom, strategy, and faith. 💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The biggest legal mistakes to avoid in divorce (and how to protect your assets) ✅ How to shift from emotional overwhelm to strategic empowerment ✅ Biblical wisdom to guide you through the toughest moments Discussing the R.A.P. Method™—a trauma-informed, faith-based approach that empowers you to handle divorce with clarity, wisdom, and confidence. ✅ R – Reason – Understand why this is happening. Root yourself in faith, self-reflection, and emotional clarity so you can make decisions that serve your future. ✅ A – Analysis – Knowledge is power. Equip yourself with the legal, financial, and strategic insights to make informed, purposeful choices. ✅ P – Process – Take decisive action. Navigate the legal system, leverage your marital contributions, and finalize your divorce in a way that honors your dignity and faith. 🔥 Divorce is not your downfall—it’s your breakthrough! Tune in for legal gems, faith-based encouragement, and real talk on how to divorce with confidence and reclaim your future. 🎧 Subscribe, share, and leave a review—because every woman deserves to divorce like a boss! Check out our Sponsors: The Sejour-Gustave Firm PLLC "Celebrating a decade of excellence, The Sejour-Gustave Firm provides award-winning estate planning and business legal services in Florida and Georgia. Secure your legacy with trusted expertise. thesgfirm.com" Divorce L.A.B. Institute "Reclaim your power with Divorce L.A.B. Institute! Helping women break free from toxic marriages with holistic support and expert legal insights. Your healing starts here. dlabinstitute.com" Ally Prestige Apparel "Style with significance! Ally Prestige Apparel celebrates and empowers paralegals, nurses, and all professional support staff with high-quality, meaningful fashion. Wear your pride—join the movement! allyprestigeapparel.com"
S1 · E5
Mar 4, 2025
44:14
Breaking Cycles: A Personal Journey Through Divorce
In this episode of Faces of Divorce, Jadinah sits down with Phil to explore his personal journey of experiencing divorce as a child and how it shaped his emotional and psychological growth. Phil shares candid insights about his family dynamics, his struggles with abandonment, and the impact his parents' divorce had on his relationships and self-identity. Together, they discuss how these experiences influenced his approach to marriage, fatherhood, and breaking negative cycles for future generations. Through resilience, forgiveness, and open communication, Phil reflects on the lessons he’s learned and the path he’s forging toward healing and healthy relationships. Tune in for an honest and inspiring conversation about navigating divorce with strength and peace. Episode Sponsor: This episode is proudly sponsored by: The Sejour-Gustave Firm—securing legacies with expert estate planning visit thesgfirm.com, Divorce L.A.B. Institute—empowering women to break free and rebuild, visit dlabinstitute.com, Ally Prestige Apparel—celebrating the backbone of every profession with style and purpose. Learn more at, allyprestigeapparel.com
S1 · E4
Feb 25, 2025
54:32
Divorce Differently – Purpose, Power & Letting God Lead
In this episode of Faces of Divorce, Attorney J dives deep into why we need to divorce differently. She challenges the traditional narratives around divorce and explores how showing up purposefully in the process can transform not just the outcome, but your entire perspective on life after divorce. Debunking the myth that divorce disqualifies you from being used by God, Attorney J shifts the focus to faith, purpose, and empowerment. She unpacks how changing your mindset is key to healing, rebuilding, and stepping into the next chapter with confidence. If you've ever felt like divorce is the end of your story, this conversation will remind you—it’s just the beginning. Tune in for a powerful discussion on faith, resilience, and the courage to let God use you, even in the midst of life’s toughest transitions. This episode is proudly sponsored by: 🔹 The Sejour-Gustave Firm – Legalizing your legacy through estate planning and business. Visit thesgfirm.com 🔹 Ally Prestige Apparel – Elevating your style with purpose. Visit allyprestigeapparel.com.
S1 · E3
Feb 18, 2025
23:05
Through a Child’s Eyes: Dana’s Journey of Resilience and Reflection
In today's episode, we are joined by Dana Belfleur, a financial advisor and world traveler, who will share her powerful story of being reunited with her parents at the age of six, only to witness the constant fighting and abuse that marked her childhood. We will explore how Dana processed these traumatic experiences, what she hoped for her parents' marriage, and the long-term impact it has had on her life. Additionally, we'll discuss how you can learn from Dana's journey to navigate divorce with greater self-awareness and care for those around you.
S1 · E2
Feb 12, 2025
39:14
1 of 2