Neurodivergent Anxious Attachment...

Neurodivergent Anxious Attachment and People Pleasing: When Self Abandonment Feels Like your Whole Personality

Neurodivergent Strategies for Late-Diagnosed Adults: The Div... by Regina McMenomy, PhD.

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Have you ever spent hours decoding a single text message, or convinced yourself that anticipating everyone else's needs was how to be a "good friend"? If you are late-identified neurodivergent, what you’ve always praised as a thoughtful personality trait might actually be a highly activated nervous system response.

In this episode of Divergent Paths, Dr. Regina McMenomy Ph.D. breaks down the intersection of anxious attachment, codependency, and masking. She explores how growing up with unpredictable connections teaches your nervous system to stay hyper-vigilant, leading to a habit of reading the room at the expense of your own boundaries. You'll discover why self-abandonment gets socially rewarded as being "low maintenance" and how to start tracking your internal signals instead of everyone else’s emotional state.

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Keywords
people pleasinganxious attachment neurodivergentneurodivergent attachment stylesanxious attachment neurodivergent unmaskingcodependency and ADHDneurodivergent codependencycodependencycodependency and attachment stylesself abandonment