Episode notes
Summary
We explore the "Functional Model" of relating and how constant management leads to a profound sense of isolation. This episode reframes the exhaustion of the 'strong one' as a structural issue rather than a failure of connection.
Key Takeaways
- Your exhaustion is a result of occupying all the available functional space in the relationship.
- Over-functioning for two people creates a barrier that prevents you from being truly known.
- True strength is the courage to leave the gap unmanaged long enough for a partner to enter it.
Keywords
connected through change podcast • men supporting menopause • menopause relationship support • midlife change and marriage • Russell Betts menopause guide • The Good Husband’s Guide to Menopause • two voices one journey • couples navigating me