Birth Mother Matters Adoption Season 2,Episode #163: You Got Served; A Conversation With A Process Server Listen to Dana, a Process Server with 30 years experience.  In Arizona, when a potential birth father is named by a birth mother is named, that birth father is provided with notice of the adoption.  In some situations, a process server is used to provide notice.  Listen to one aspect of the adoption process. Listen.  Learn.  Love.