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Dating after twenty years of an arranged marriage, decoding the real motivations behind "childfree" men, and what to do when your sex life becomes completely one-sided.

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Love, Wilder Show by Shanna Wilder

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In this episode, we are diving deep into three incredibly raw listener emails that tackle the unspoken anxieties of modern relationships.

First up, Akila writes in about navigating her very first relationship after a 20-year arranged marriage. She treated her boyfriend’s kids to birthday gifts but is now trapped in an intense cycle of second-guessing. Did she overstep? Is she being manipulative? We break down step-parent anxiety and why doing the right thing can sometimes feel so wrong.

Next, Abby is 30 and dealing with a bizarre match on the apps. He claims he’s childfree for "peace and hobbies," but chases her aggressively until he realizes she lives 45 minutes away in the Dallas suburbs. We explore the existential dread of having kids in 2026, and whether Abby’s "freak" radar was spot on.

Finally, Amy opens up about a painful ... 

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