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Bondage for Beginners, Surviving Future Faking, and The 'Clench Effect
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Love, Wilder Show by Shanna Wilder
Episode notes
Stop trying to "think" your way out of anxiety. In this episode, we’re talking about the "Clench Effect"—why high-functioning women are waking up in fight-or-flight mode (even without trauma) and the somatic tools to actually fix it.
Plus, we’re breaking down: Bondage for Beginners: How to introduce kink to a partner who feels "not enough" (without making it awkward). Love Bombing vs. Real Love: He planned a future on date 3 and ghosted by date 5? Here’s why "work stress" is a lie.
Science Says Source:
Reference: Oschatz, T., Klein, V., Kovalcik, V., & Kahalon, R. (2025). Women’s Names for Their Genitals are Differentially Associated with Sexual and Health Outcomes. Sex Roles, 91(11), 1-16.
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