This week on the August & Ivy Podcast, Chelsea sits down with her 20-year-old little sister for a sister-to-sister catch-up — with 12 years between them and two VERY different stages of life.

We’re talking college life, dating, friendships, becoming an auntie, what your early 20s actually feel like, and all the things you see differently once you hit your 30s. Chelsea shares the big-sister advice she wishes she could’ve given her younger self, while her sister gives us a peek into what it’s actually like being 20 right now.

From growing up in the same family but having completely different experiences to the lessons you only learn with age, this episode is equal parts funny, nostalgic, and real.