In this episode of The Quest for Self, we talk about ghosting and why it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the other person's capacity. If you've ever been ghosted and immediately started asking yourself what you did wrong, if you've replayed every conversation looking for where you messed up, or if you've spiraled into shame wondering why you're too much or not enough, this episode is for you. I share my personal story of being ghosted for the first time when I got back into dating. Everything seemed great. We'd gone on multiple dates, even brought our dogs to meet each other. And then he just disappeared. No explanation. No response. Just gone. And I went down that spiral. What's wrong with me? What could I have done differently? But here's what I learned: Ghosting isn't about you. It's about their inability to communicate. T ...