In Episode 58 of After the Quiet, I share how coercive control doesn’t stop at the relationship—it extends to the people around you. After two of his own family members became my support system during our separation, he intervened with threats and intimidation, forcing them to cut ties with me. What followed was a deep and painful isolation—not just for me, but for my children, who also lost meaningful friendships.

This episode explores how abusers isolate their partners by controlling relationships, instilling fear in others, and creating a sense of shame and silence. If you’ve ever felt alone, unsupported, or unsure why people started to disappear from your life, this story will help you recognize the patterns and understand that it’s not your fault.