Why You Feel Guilty Setting Bound...

Why You Feel Guilty Setting Boundaries

Focused and Flourishing di Coach Shondella Barkley
S1 · E9
10 giu 2026
09:13

Note sull'episodio

Why do so many people feel guilty for setting boundaries?

In this episode of Focused & Flourishing, we're talking about the guilt that often shows up when you finally start putting limits in place.

If you've ever felt selfish for saying no, worried about disappointing others, or questioned whether your boundaries were "too much," this conversation is for you.

The truth is, healthy boundaries aren't about pushing people away—they're about protecting your peace, honoring your needs, and creating healthier relationships.

Let's explore why boundary guilt happens, where it comes from, and how to move through it without abandoning yourself in the process.

And if this topic resonates with you, you'll find even more guidance on healthy communication, boundaries, and relationship dynamics in my book, Speak from the Heart: A Guide to Healthy and Transparent Communication.

💛 Let me ask you a very important question:

Do you feel guilty when you set boundaries… or do you feel empowered by them?

✨ Ready to do this work on a deeper level?

📧 Connect with me: shondella@the-ece.com

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📚 Grab a copy of Speak from the Heart: A Guide to Healthy and Transparent Communication

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