Dating apps have convinced us that compatibility means finding someone who likes all the same things we do.

The same music. The same restaurants. The same travel style. The same hobbies.

But here's the problem...Your favorite TV show has never saved a relationship.

In this episode of The Realistic Romantic, Drew challenges one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating: that your ideal partner should be just like you.

Shared interests might help you plan a first date, but they won't help you navigate conflict, finances, family, commitment, or the future you want to build together. Instead, Drew explores why shared values are a much stronger predictor of long-term compatibility and introduces a practical framework for identifying the values that actually shape a relatio ...