Everyone says they're looking for the spark. But what if we've been using one word to describe completely different feelings?

Butterflies. Anxiety. Chemistry. Novelty. Comfort.

In this episode of The Realistic Romantic, Drew sits down with his best friend Jacob to unpack one of modern dating's biggest myths. Together, they explore why so many people end promising relationships because they "didn't feel a spark," how pop culture has shaped our expectations of love, and why the healthiest relationships often begin with something much quieter than fireworks.

If you've ever wondered whether you should trust instant chemistry, give someone a second date, or question whether calm is actually more attractive than chaos, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn

• Why the sp ...