What if the biggest obstacle to love isn't finding the right partner -- but the story you've been told about yourself?

In this conversation, Tom Bruett (he/him) sits down with Darren Main (he/him), to explore how queer men can heal shame, cultivate authentic relationships, and reconnect with purpose. Drawing from more than 35 years of working with LGBTQ+ communities, Darren shares how his experiences with addiction, recovery, spirituality, HIV, fatherhood, and self-acceptance shaped his approach to healing.

Together, they discuss why so many gay men struggle with intimacy long after coming out, how internalized shame influences relationships, and why healing involves more than changing our thoughts. Darren explains the role of embodiment through practices like yoga and meditation, reflects on lessons from the 12-Step  ...