Justifying the Bullsh*t

In this episode, the Earl Thomas situation was just beginning and through social media, there were a lot of women backing the decision of his wife to almost shoot him.   Earl Thomas was allegedly caught with his brother having sex with a woman. Things spiraled out of control and a gun was pulled.  Our question is why is it justified for women to things like this, but when a man does it he is a coward and called a little boy like his heart couldn't be broken.  Do you think what she did was right?