Remix Reality Podcast

Remix Reality Podcast

di Lili Tombe
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Comparison—The Theft of Joy

They say "comparison is the thief of joy," but in today’s world, it feels almost impossible to avoid. In this episode, we dive into how constant comparison—whether in school, work, family dynamics, or social media gradually steals our happiness and sense of self. We explore the pressure to measure up academically and professionally, the weight of family expectations, and how curated online lives make us feel like we’re always falling behind. But most importantly, we discuss how to break free from the cycle of comparison and reclaim joy in our own lives. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough because of what you see around you, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about how to stop measuring our happiness against others and start living for ourselves 💗✨

Navigating Faith: Questions, Struggles, and Growth

Faith is a journey—one that isn’t always straightforward. In this episode, I open up about my personal relationship with God, how it has evolved over time, and the struggles I’ve faced along the way. I also talk about my mental health journey and how faith has been a source of strength during difficult seasons.In addition to sharing my own experiences, I answer listener submissions about faith, doubt, and staying connected to God. If you’ve ever questioned your faith, struggled with your mental health, or wondered how to find peace in uncertainty, you’re not alone. Let’s have an open, honest conversation about what it means to seek God, even when the answers aren’t always clear.

Family Ties: Love, Conflict & Growth

What does family really mean? Is it just blood, or does it include those who show up no matter what? In this episode, I dive into your questions about family, from traditions and conflicts to how relationships evolve over time. Plus, I share my own experiences—the good, the messy, and everything in between.

Conversations on Self-Love & Identity: Your Questions Answered

This week, we’re diving deep into the themes of self-love and identity through your words. I’ll be reading and reflecting on your personal submissions—stories, thoughts, and experiences that explore what it means to embrace who we are. From moments of self-discovery to powerful affirmations of self-worth, this episode is all about celebrating the journey to loving ourselves fully!

"Is This a Red Flag or Am I Overthinking?" 💘🚩

Love is in the air… or are you ignoring that red flag waving? This "love week", Lili plays part-time Cupid, part-time private investigator as she dives into listener submissions about love, work, and life dilemmas. From questionable dating behaviors to workplace situations, she’s here to help you figure out whether you’re seeing warning signs or just overanalyzing. Tune in for unfiltered advice, stories, some or red flag intervention 🚩

'Show Me Your Friends...'

Friendship can be messy, beautiful, and everything in between. I spill my own friendship horror stories, share what I’ve learned about finding real friends, and read listener submissions to give advice on everything from seasonal friendships to betrayal, forgiveness, and reliability. Some friendships shape us, some teach us hard lessons, and some should’ve ended way sooner. Because who you surround yourself with matters! so let’s talk about it and make sure we’re doing it right

Finding Yourself, Identity

Identity is ever-changing, but how much of that change is truly us, and how much is just to fit in? In this episode, we explore the pressure to adapt, the struggle for authenticity, and what it really means to truly know yourself. Lili opens up about her journey of self-discovery, grappling with the struggle to stay authentic while facing internal and external pressure

The Illusion of Timelines

Ever feel like you're racing against an invisible clock, constantly striving to hit life’s milestones? In today’s episode, we unpack the pressure of society’s timelines and how they can rob us of the present moment. From career goals to relationship milestones, we’ll explore how these expectations lead to stress and anxiety, and offer practical ways to break free. Let’s shift the focus from the future to the here and now, and find freedom in living at our own pace.

Not a goodbye, but a 'see ya later' TikTok

In this episode, I take a nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution from Musical.ly to TikTok and reflecting on how we've all been along for the ride. From its impact on creativity and connection to the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the, we unpack how TikTok has changed our lives in many ways. With talks of its potential end, it’s bittersweet to imagine saying goodbye to this app

Dear 2024 Lili....

This episode is all about looking back at 2024—the good, the bad, and the downright messy. I’m sharing my stories, the lessons I’ve learned, and how I’m using it all to set the tone for 2025. I hope that you walk away with a new perspective—or at least a good laugh.
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