Join Wayne Giles as he explores a key principle in the recovery process—shifting our focus from ourselves to serving others, especially when faced with personal challenges. This passage from Step 4 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous reminds us that when urges or self-centered desires become overwhelming, the solution lies in helping others. By thinking of their needs and working for their well-being, we quiet our own troubling urges and avoid the heartache that comes from acting on selfish desires.

Wayne emphasizes that this principle connects deeply to the overall purpose of the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) program and the Interactive Step Experience (ISE): advocating for our brothers and sisters, serving others, and growing spiritually in the process. It’s not about ignoring our needs but about f ...