Natalie Saves the World: One Podcast at a Time

Natalie Saves the World: One Podcast at a Time

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"Loved You, Hated You": Surviving Toxic Love, Losing Yourself & Choosing You | Nikki Allen
What happens when you love someone so deeply that you lose yourself in the process — and then find the courage to transform that pain into art? In this episode, I sit down with Nikki Allen — singer, songwriter, filmmaker, and author of Loved You, Hated You — a bold, emotionally charged novel born from a real toxic relationship, a song written to survive it, and years of "soul surgery" to heal from it. We talk about: 💔 Why we stay in toxic relationships long after we know we should leave 🎭 The "six-month mask" — and why the anesthesia always wears off 🌱 What choosing yourself actually looks like in real life (not just as a concept) 🔥 How fear keeps us stuck — and what's waiting on the other side of it ✍️ Why fiction can tell truths that memoirs sometimes can't 🎬 The creative journey from heartbreak song → screenplay → novel Nikki's story is raw, real, and deeply relatable — and her message is clear: self-love isn't selfish. It's the foundation everything else is built on. 🔗 Connect with Nikki: nikkiallen.com 📖 Loved You, Hated You — available now
The Modern Citizen: Why America's Crisis Is Actually a Spiritual Awakening
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What if the chaos, division, and darkness consuming America right now isn't a breakdown — but a burning away of everything that no longer serves us? In this episode, I sit down with Allen, aka The Paraclete — author of The Modern Citizen, Jungian thinker, and someone who has spent decades asking the questions most people are too comfortable to ask. We explore why this moment in history is unlike any other, what Carl Jung's concept of individuation reveals about America's collective shadow, and why the crisis we're living through may actually be the spiritual awakening humanity has been waiting for. We cover: Why America's symbol may be shifting from the eagle to the phoenix — and what that means for all of us Carl Jung's individuation process and how it mirrors what's happening collectively The "shadow" of America — what it is and why we haven't faced it yet Why materialism is the most dangerous idea in the world right now What Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey tells us about this exact moment in history How the work you do on yourself quietly ripples out into the world "The modern citizen is someone who is fully conscious of their existence." — Allen, The Paraclete 📖 Allen's Book: The Modern Citizen: The Spiritual Evolution of Humanity Available on Amazon → https://www.amazon.com/MODERN-CITIZEN-Spiritual-Evolution-Humanity/dp/B0FXW99ZT1/ 📚 Referenced in this episode: The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell — a book Allen credits as life-changing and a major influence on his work. 📲 Connect with Allen: TikTok: @theparaclete9 Email: theparaclete9@gmail.com
From Suicidal to Shining: What a Therapist Learned by Healing Herself First
What does it look like to go from planning your own death to standing in your light — and then losing a child — and still choosing hope? Malisa Hepner is a licensed clinical social worker, therapist, author, and podcast host who has lived every layer of what she now teaches. In this conversation, she shares her journey from a childhood shaped by profound adversity, through her own mental health crisis, to the unimaginable loss of her 18-year-old son Jake — and how the tools she'd spent two years building are what's carrying her through. We talk about: Why trauma creates separation between you and your true self The three-step framework that changed everything: Quiet the Noise → Connect to Self → Embody the Light Why shame is the real noise in your head — and how to turn it down What grief actually looks like when you refuse to let it destroy you Why your flaws are your magic, not your problems Astrology, Kabbalah, and finding an anchor when everything feels dark This episode is for anyone who has ever felt too much and not enough at the same time. You are not broken. The light is closer than you think. ⚠️ Content note: This episode includes honest conversation about mental health, suicidal ideation, and loss.
Why Relationships Fail: Chaos Kids, Subconscious Patterns & How to Save Your Marriage with Larry Bilotta
In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, Natalie sits down with marriage counselor, author, and founder of You Can Save This Marriage, Larry Bilotta, to explore why relationships fail — and what it actually takes to heal them from the inside out. We dive into: 🧠 What a "Chaos Kid" is and how childhood chaos silently shapes your relationships 🔄 The subconscious patterns driving conflict, avoidance, and self-sabotage 💔 The truth behind "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" ✨ Soft-hearted vs. hard-natured personalities — and why opposites attract (and clash) 🌱 Why it only takes one person to save a marriage — and how that actually works 🦊 Tools like "digging a foxhole" to break generational cycles before they repeat Larry spent 27 years in a deeply unhappy marriage before experiencing the breakthrough that transformed his life — and the lives of tens of thousands of others. He challenges conventional relationship advice and introduces powerful frameworks like the invisible lifestyle, the emotion train, and buckers — people so suppressed they're actively fighting their own minds. Natalie also gets personal, sharing her own experience with a long engagement that ended suddenly — and Larry helps her see it through a whole new lens. Whether you're struggling in your relationship, healing from heartbreak, or just trying to understand why you keep repeating the same patterns — this conversation will change how you see yourself and the people you love. Learn more about Larry's work: https://youcansavethismarriage.com #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #ChaosKid #SubconsciousPatterns #NatalieSavesTheWorld #RelationshipHealing #SelfAwareness #Podcast #PersonalGrowth #BreakingCycles
Self-Trust & Spirituality: How to Ask Better Questions & Find Meaning in Everyday Life
Self-trust doesn't come from having all the answers—it comes from asking better questions. In this episode, I sit down with writer and storyteller Kristan Swan for a grounded conversation about spirituality that actually feels real. No fluff, no perfectionism—just honest insights about building trust in uncertainty, finding meaning in everyday moments, and rewriting the stories we tell ourselves. Kristan opens up about how a chaotic childhood of constant moving shaped her journey from trying to control everything to learning how to trust the process. We talk about daily spiritual practices that don't require you to be "better," the power of being a better stranger, and why solution-oriented thinking changes everything. What we cover: • How childhood uncertainty can build resilience and self-trust• Simple daily spiritual practices (hint: it starts before you open your eyes) • The concept of being a "better stranger" and why small acts matter • Solution-oriented vs. problem-oriented thinking • Living a life you could leave tomorrow with contentment • Why you don't need to be "better" to start your spiritual journey If you're tired of surface-level self-help and want real conversations about spirituality, meaning-making, and living with more intention, this one's for you. Connect with Kristan Swan: Website: kristanswan.com 💬 What's your biggest takeaway? Drop it in the comments below. 👉 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs to hear it.
Career Pivots, AI & Entrepreneurship: Finding Clarity in the New Era of Work with Stephanie Cordes
In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, Natalie sits down with career coach Stephanie Cordes to talk about career pivots, finding clarity, and what to do when you feel that pull toward something new—but have no idea what's next. We dive into: 💼 How AI and downsizing are reshaping the future of work 🔄 Why it's never too late to pivot (and how to know when you're ready) ✨ The difference between climbing the corporate ladder vs. entrepreneurship 🎯 How to future-proof your career in an uncertain world 💡 Creating multiple paths to success beyond the traditional 9-to-5 Stephanie shares her own journey from 20 years in corporate to becoming a career coach after her daughter's health crisis changed everything. Whether you're questioning your current path, facing a layoff, or dreaming of something different, this conversation will help you reassess your goals and discover that success doesn't only look one way. Learn more about Stephanie's coaching: http://stephahead.com/ #CareerPivot #Entrepreneurship #FutureOfWork #AIandCareers #Podcast #NatalieSavesTheWorld #CareerClarity #WorkLifeBalance
Having The Courage to Go It Alone: Living Abroad, Burnout & Building Community with Bailey Hopp
In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, Natalie sits down with social media manager, solo traveler, and storyteller Bailey Hopp to talk about what it really takes to go it alone—from living abroad in Germany and London to rediscovering balance after burnout. We dive into: 🌍 Lessons from solo travel and expat life 💻 The realities of burnout in marketing 💬 How to rebuild confidence, purpose, and community in your 20s ✨ Why going it alone often leads to finding where you truly belong If you’ve ever dreamed of packing a bag, changing your life, or simply finding your people, this conversation will leave you inspired and grounded. #SoloTravel #BurnoutRecovery #BuildingCommunity #Podcast #NatalieSavesTheWorld
How to Turn Pain Into Gold | The Alchemy of Transformation with David Gilbert
In this powerful episode of Natalie Saves the World, I sit down with David Gilbert — executive coach, author of The Alchemical Journey: The Ultimate Quest for Inner Transformation, and a guide for high performers seeking something deeper than success. We explore how to transmute pain, fear, and self-doubt into creative power and purpose, and what it means to go beyond high performance into true transformation. David shares his own journey — from loss and burnout to spiritual alchemy — and how you can turn your own struggles into “soul gold.” 🌙 In this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ The three phases of alchemy: black, white, and red — and what they reveal about your growth 🔥 How pain and discomfort are portals to purpose 💫 Why uncertainty is the path to freedom 🌹 How to integrate your masculine and feminine energies to become whole 🪶 The transformative power of breathwork and self-awareness 🎧 Listen, reflect, and discover how your greatest challenges might just be your greatest gifts. Guest Links: 🌐 Website: davidggilbert.com 📖 Book: The Alchemical Journey: The Ultimate Quest for Inner Transformation 🎙️ Natalie Saves the World: One Podcast at a Time 📺 Subscribe for more episodes on growth, purpose, and transformation. #NatalieSavestheWorld #DavidGilbert #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #Transformation #Alchemy #Breathwork #Spirituality #Mindset #SelfDiscovery
Feeling Isolated as a Freelancer? How to Find Your People & Build Community | Autumn Morgan (Freelance Marketer)
Feeling isolated or alone as a freelancer or creative? Wondering how to turn events, conversations, and even food into opportunities for authentic connection? In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, I sit down with Autumn Morgan—freelance marketer, community builder, and lifelong book lover—to talk about: How to find your “people” as a freelancer (and why even one genuine connection is a win) Why food is the ultimate icebreaker at networking events The difference between surface-level networking and authentic relationship-building Why having a give-first mindset pays off in business and life• How to feel less isolated while freelancing—from coworking to “body doubling” on Zoom Autumn’s journey from aspiring book editor to building a career supporting authors and creatives The power of books and storytelling in shaping how we connect with others If you’re trying to build meaningful friendships and professional relationships in 2025 (in a world full of AI content and surface-level interactions), this episode is packed with insight and encouragement. 🔗 How to connect with Autumn: Website: autumnmorganconsulting.com Instagram/X/LinkedIn: @AutumnRMorgan 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment your favorite takeaway, share this with a friend, and subscribe for more conversations about connection, creativity, and building a life that feels authentic. 📚 Books & tools mentioned: - Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski - The Art of Event Planning by Gianna Gaudini - A Song in the Storm & An Ember in the Wind by Riley Knight - The Growth Tribe (marketing freelancer community) - Notion - Superhuman #Freelancing #Community #Networking #Events #EventPlanning #FindingCommunity #CommunityBuilding #AuthenticConnections #NatalieSavestheWorld #Podcast #EventMarketing #Marketing #FreelanceCommunity #RemoteWork
What Women Get Wrong About Men: Dating Coach Jonathon Aslay on Love, Apps & Emotional Availability
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Why do so many women struggle to find emotionally available men — and what do they often misunderstand about how men approach love and commitment? In this episode of Natalie Saves the World, I sit down with dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay to uncover the truth about modern relationships from a man’s perspective. We cover: What women often get wrong about men and commitment Why emotional availability matters more than chemistry What men often look for vs. what women look for — and why focusing only on attraction or status keeps us stuck How childhood wounds, divorce, and cultural pressures shape dating today The role of plastic surgery and unrealistic expectations in modern love Why self-love is the foundation of a healthy relationship Jonathon’s personal journey through 100+ first dates and recovery, and how it shaped his coaching Jonathon shares insights from 20,000+ hours of coaching women, helping them spot red flags, lean into green flags, and shift toward the values that truly build lasting partnerships. ✨ Connect with Jonathon: 📖 Book: What the Heck Is Self-Love Anyway? 🌐 Website: jonathonaslay.com ▶️ YouTube: Jonathon Aslay 📸 Instagram: @jonathonaslay
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