Mindset Money Success

Mindset Money Success

di Loraine Marshall

Miglioramento personale

Breaking Free: Recognizing and Overcoming Narcissistic and Financial Abuse Post-Separation

In today's episode, Loraine is exploring two crucial topics to do with the aftermath of leaving a narcissistic relationship behind. First, she explores the complexities of identifying the real victim in a narcissistic relationship, shedding light on the manipulative tactics of narcissists and the challenges faced by survivors of abuse. Loraine then discusses post-separation financial abuse, highlighting the implications of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 in the UK and the various forms of economic manipulation and control that can persist even after a relationship ends. KEY TAKEAWAYS True victims of narcissistic abuse may exhibit symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, and post-traumatic stress, while false victims may appear calm and detached, often moving on quickly to new relationships. The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 in the UK recognizes post-separation financial abuse as a form of domestic abuse, including behaviors like economic control, employment sabotage, and accumulating debt in the survivor's name. Survivors can seek protection under the Domestic Abuse Act by obtaining a Domestic Abuse Protection Order (DAPO) to prohibit specific behaviors related to post-separation financial abuse, with breaches of the order considered a criminal offense. Family courts have enhanced powers to address financial consequences of domestic abuse, such as transferring tenancies or ownership of property, varying maintenance orders, and providing financial compensation to survivors. Encouraging open conversations, providing supportive services and helplines, and offering financial empowerment programs can empower survivors to gain financial independence and break free from the cycle of post-separation financial abuse. BEST MOMENTS "I believe all domestic abusers are narcissistic, without exception. The capacity to tell someone, I love you, I'm going to care for you, we're in a relationship, then emotionally, physically, or sexually assault them. That's zero empathy." "Survivors of any form of domestic abuse, including emotional and psychological abuse, will be left mourning the loss of their relationship. A survivor will be grieving they will be more isolated from the family and friends that they shared with the narcissist." "Survivors should be supported to gain financial independence, to feel empowered and to rebuild their lives on their terms, unencumbered by financial shackles of an abusive past."Articles referred to in this Episode Book Recommendations https://lifechangeplans.com/shop/ Equality Now - Weaponsing Defamation https://equalitynow.org/news_and_insights/weaponizing-defamation-lawsuits-against-survivors-violates-international-human-rights/ Lee vs Brown - UK Defamation Judgement https://www.casemine.com/judgement/uk/62cc6f60b50db97b28b75e9eIf you want to support me and help me in my mission to raise awareness of hidden forms of abuse in intimate relationships. Please share my content, consider buying my book, or donate. https://lifechangeplans.com/loren-keeling-2/ FREE Chapter https://lifechangeplans.com/free-chapter-2/ Thank You. HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, b

The Power of Thought

In this episode, Loraine considers the transformative power of positive thinking and how changing one's mindset can lead to a life of abundance and fulfillment. Drawing insights from renowned personal development coaches and authors, Loraine explores key ideas on transforming one's thinking, such as cultivating awareness of thought patterns, challenging negative beliefs, and practicing gratitude. Through affirmations and continuous learning, Loraine encourages listeners to take ownership of their lives, detach from specific outcomes, and serve others to invite abundance and fulfillment. KEY TAKEAWAYS Changing your thinking can change your life in profound and transformative ways by adopting a mindset of positivity and practicing self-awareness. Practicing gratitude and visualization are powerful tools to shift your thinking towards the positive and instill a deep sense of belief in achieving your goals. Surround yourself with positivity by limiting exposure to negative influences and cultivating a positive environment that nourishes your mind and spirit. Set clear, achievable goals, take inspired action, and invest in self-care to move closer to your desired outcomes and maintain overall well-being. Embrace failure as an opportunity for growth, adopt an abundance mindset, use positive affirmations, and serve others to invite abundance and fulfillment into your life. BEST MOMENTS "Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny." "If you really want to do something, you'll find a way. If you don't, you'll find an excuse." "Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you. Limit exposure to negative influences, whether it's in the news, on social media, or with toxic relationships." "Set clear goals. Define what success means to you and then set clear, achievable goals to work towards." "Something wonderful is always on the verge of happening. Thank you for listening. You are truly blessed." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love, Connection, and Community Building with Dawn Rishárd

In today's episode, Loraine interviews Licensed Professional Counselor, Marriage and Family Systems with 20 years of experience, Dawn Rishárd. Dawn shares her personal journey of overcoming challenges, particularly in the aftermath of her divorce, and highlights the importance of aligning one's mindset and heartset for personal growth and success. Both Loraine and Dawn emphasize the significance of embracing love, acceptance, and gratitude in navigating life's obstacles and finding fulfillment. KEY TAKEAWAYS Managing both mindset and heartset is crucial for success and well-being. It's important to address emotional baggage and self-judgment to align with a positive mindset. Recognizing and expressing emotions is essential for personal growth and healing. Emotions serve as a guidance system to navigate challenges and make positive shifts. Reconnecting with oneself and accepting all experiences, both positive and negative, leads to personal growth and a sense of fulfilment. Embracing challenges and learning from them can lead to personal transformation and a deeper understanding of oneself. Fostering love, respect, and unity among individuals can create a harmonious society where everyone feels valued and supported. BEST MOMENTS "Your mindset is a result of your heart set. And your heart set is all of the emotional baggage that you carry around inside of you." "I say that your mindset is a lot of pre-programming, right? It's a lot of conscious programming. So you can self-sabotage and do things that you don't even recognize because you're not connected to what the source is." "I feel like our whole life is about coming back to this place of love and acceptance and appreciation for exactly who you are, what you've experienced, what you've been through, how you came through, grew through things." "I feel like all of our life is about coming back to this place of love and acceptance and appreciation for exactly who you are, what you've experienced, what you've been through, how you came through, grew through things." "It's been really interesting to listen to all of your ideas and things. Yeah. And quite a lot of it is resonated with me because I've studied personal development in the past with, you know, Jim Rohn and Bob Proctor, Mary Morrissey and Randy Gage." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mindset and Personal Development

Today, Loraine delves into the transformative power of mindset and personal development. She explores the intricate connection between thoughts, emotions, and outcomes in our lives. Loraine emphasizes the impact of mindset on creativity, clarity, and focus, offering practical steps to achieve personal growth and success. Guiding listeners on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, Loraine encourages people to reshape their thoughts, overcome challenges, and ultimately pave the way for a life filled with positivity, purpose, and abundance. KEY TAKEAWAYS Loraine emphasizes how our thoughts and emotions shape our reality, influencing our actions and outcomes. By cultivating a positive mindset, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities and opportunities. Achieving clarity and focus is crucial for personal development. By setting clear goals, practicing mindfulness, and embracing a growth mindset, individuals can channel their energy towards meaningful endeavors and avoid distractions. Loraine notes that understanding and managing our emotions is essential for personal growth. By tuning into our emotions, we gain insights into our thought patterns, make informed decisions, and create a supportive environment for overcoming challenges. The transformative power of personal development begins with reshaping our thoughts and beliefs. By challenging negative self-talk and cultivating a positive growth mindset, individuals can create a blueprint for success and shape their reality. BEST MOMENTS "Personal development is the cornerstone of success, shaping our reality through thoughts and emotions." "Creativity thrives on a positive mindset, while negative emotions can stifle innovation and problem-solving abilities." "Understanding the impact of negative emotions on creativity is crucial for unlocking our full potential." "Clarity and focus are essential for navigating personal development, providing a clear vision and channeling energy towards meaningful endeavors." "The transformative power of personal development lies in reshaping our thoughts and beliefs, creating a blueprint for success." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Science of Positive Transformation

In todya's episode, Loraine interviews Eldon, a neuroscientist with over three decades of experience in research and development. Eldon shares his journey of utilizing neuroscience tools to serve humanity by teaching individuals how to harness the power of neuroplasticity. He delves into the importance of rewiring the brain for success and abundance, emphasizing the impact of subconscious programming and the role of self-induced trance states in changing neural pathways. KEY TAKEAWAYS Start and end your day by focusing on things you are grateful for. Embody feelings of appreciation and positivity to shift your energy. Take the time to heal from past traumas and negative experiences. Self-forgiveness and deep healing are essential for personal growth and transformation. Repetition is crucial for rewiring your brain and creating positive habits. Consistently apply positive thoughts and actions to see lasting change. Shift your mindset from victimhood to empowerment. Take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and actions to create the life you desire. Break down your goals into manageable steps. Start with small actions each day to build momentum towards your desired outcomes. BEST MOMENTS "Most of our thoughts are unconscious, regurgitating day after day. We're living on autopilot, not truly thinking." "I had to envision writing a book before I even outlined it. Mindset is key to achieving goals." "Subconscious mind learns through repetition. Self-induce trance to rewire your brain effectively." "Healing deep traumas is messy and uncomfortable, but necessary for true transformation and self-love." "Positive thinking alone isn't enough. Align your thoughts and feelings to change your energy and attract positive outcomes." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cultivating Financial Freedom: Empowering Your Wealth Mindset

In today's episode, Loraine Marshall delves into the transformative power of overcoming limiting beliefs around money and cultivating a mindset primed for financial success. Through a series of engaging discussions, Loraine explores the importance of making decisions, practicing forgiveness and gratitude, and embracing the law of circulation. Drawing from personal experiences and real-world examples, she emphasizes the significance of taking massive, imperfect action and dispels the myth of perfectionism as a roadblock to progress. Loraine encourages listeners to start their journey towards financial abundance by reshaping their mindset and taking actionable steps towards their goals. 5 free mantras sign up https://lifechangeplans.com/5-free-mantras-sign-up/ KEY TAKEAWAYS Every decision, no matter how small, shapes our financial journey. Successful individuals embrace the power of choice and understand that it's key to progress. Forgiveness allows us to let go of past financial mistakes and move forward with a clean slate. Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, attracting abundance. Giving generously opens us up to receiving, creating a financial ecosystem where energy and opportunities flow freely. Embracing abundance leads to alignment and success. Start now and adjust along the way. Perfectionism can be a roadblock to progress. Learn by doing, take action, and get closer to success. Break free from limiting beliefs and pave the way for financial success with the 5 FREE Abundance Affirmation Mantras. Sign up for the transformational journey to redefine your relationship with money and unlock abundance. BEST MOMENTS "Successful individuals are not afraid to make decisions. They embrace the power of choice and understand that it's key to progress.""Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, a very powerful mindset shift that attracts abundance." "Holding on to grudges or guilt about money can be a significant barrier to success." "When you give generously, you open yourself up to receiving. It's not just about money. It's about energy and opportunities flowing freely." "Taking massive and imperfect action is about not waiting for the perfect moment. It's about starting now and adjusting along the way." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Post Separation Legal Conflict

In this episode, Loraine takes the time to discuss her own personal experience of navigating post-separation legal conflict over a three-year period. Loraine shares the abrupt termination of her relationship, the challenges she faced in negotiating financial security, and the emotional turmoil she endured. She highlights the complexities of legal battles, failed mediation attempts, and the impact of overlapping litigations on her life. Despite facing multiple injustices and lack of support from the courts, Loraine remains determined to share her story and seek justice. KEY TAKEAWAYS Post-separation legal conflict can be complex and emotionally draining, especially when dealing with an unreasonable ex-partner. Negotiation and mediation attempts may fail if one party is unwilling to cooperate or keeps changing the terms of agreements. Seeking legal advice and representation is crucial in navigating legal proceedings and protecting one's rights. Emotional and psychological abuse can manifest in various forms during legal conflicts, adding to the trauma and stress of the situation. Documenting and sharing one's experiences can be a way to seek justice, raise awareness, and potentially find support in challenging situations. BEST MOMENTS "I did have success in business when I was in the UK, cause I was a property manager in my own business." "I was already in that space of fear, shock, grief. Then, that was the first incident." "Domestic abuse is not a private family matter. It is a crime." "I was silenced. I couldn't say anything at that court." "I just feel as if I've experienced one injustice after another injustice and not being heard at all." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Red Flags of a Toxic Partner

In today's episode, Loraine delves into the world of red flags, and toxic relationships. She informs listeners of narcissistic cycles of abuse, which includes stages such as love-bombing, devaluation, discard, and hoovering. Loraine emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and understanding the power dynamics at play in order to break free from destructive relationships. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize self-worth, establish healthy boundaries, and seek support from friends, family, or professionals on their journey of healing and recovery from emotional and psychological harm. KEY TAKEAWAYS Recognizing the red flags of a toxic partner is crucial for breaking free from destructive relationships. Understanding the stages of love-bombing, devaluation, discard, and hoovering can help individuals protect themselves from emotional and psychological harm. It is important to prioritize self-worth and establish healthy boundaries in relationships. Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can be beneficial in navigating the challenging journey of healing and recovery from narcissistic abuse. Educating oneself on the power and control dynamic of the narcissistic abuse cycle is essential in avoiding repeating past mistakes and making excuses for a partner's behavior. BEST MOMENTS "Understanding these stages can empower individuals to identify and escape toxic relationships before irreparable damage occurs." "Love-bombing involves constant communication, making it challenging for the recipient to imagine life without the seemingly perfect connection." "The victim may struggle with feelings of worthlessness, betrayal, and the challenge of rebuilding their shattered self-esteem." "Hoovering is a deliberately manipulative behaviour designed to pull a person back into a cycle of abuse." "Recognizing the red flags of a toxic partner within the context of the narcissistic cycle of abuse is crucial for breaking free from destructive relationships."Author Pen Name - Loren Keeling6 Common Post SEparation Abuse TacticsTina Swithin One Moms Battle HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Journey of a Starseed: Connecting with Your Cosmic Origins

In this episode, Loraine interviews Veronica, who shares her journey of developing her unique business as a soul reader. Veronica explains how she transitioned from being a project manager in IT to following her spiritual calling during the lockdown. She discusses her process of connecting with clients' souls, providing insights into their past lives and soul purposes. Veronica emphasizes the compassionate and non-judgmental nature of soul readings, which help individuals gain a deeper understanding of themselves and make kinder choices. The conversation also touches on the importance of mindset, money, and success in the entrepreneurial journey. Veronica shares her personal struggles and how she overcame money blocks and limiting beliefs to create a successful business. Overall, this episode offers valuable insights into soul reading, personal development, and finding joy in one's work. KEY TAKEAWAYS Developing a business in the spiritual field can be a transformative journey. Soul reading can provide insights into past lives and soul purpose, helping individuals make kinder choices and feel more connected to themselves. Money blocks and negative beliefs around money can be cleared through inner work and mindset shifts. Following joy and releasing negative beliefs around money can lead to more success and fulfillment in business. Writing down goals and intentions can have a powerful manifestation effect. BEST MOMENTS "I used to be a project manager in IT. I did a lot of spiritual stuff sideways. I never thought I would be a spiritual business owner myself." "I was asking for guidance from above like, okay, so what is my purpose here? I've heard or I was guided to the message that it's connecting people with their soul." "The soul is always very loving, compassionate, never judging. She always takes it as experience. And she always sees many choices in every moment." "Sometimes the highest truth is that your marriage is actually much better than you thought. Because sometimes I have clients who are doubting their relationship or their job." "I think that following your joy and releasing all the negative beliefs around money will eventually get you to the point when you are like, oh yes, I am a business owner." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Raising Awareness of Domestic Abuse with Sam Billingham

In today's episode, Loraine is discussing the often taboo subject of domestic abuse with guest Samantha Billingham. Sam, a survivor of domestic abuse, shares her personal experiences and the work she has done to support others in similar situations. She talks about setting up support groups like SODA (Survivors of Domestic Abuse) and raising awareness about coercive control through the MTAB (More Than a Bruise) campaign. Sam also shares her upcoming training as an Independent Domestic Violence Advisor (IDVA) to further support survivors and victims of domestic abuse. Together, Sam and Loraine delve into the challenges of reporting abuse, the impact on mental health, and the journey towards healing and forgiveness. Follow Sam here https://twitter.com/SODASam_ https://samanthabillingham.co.uk/ KEY TAKEAWAYS Domestic abuse can take many forms, including physical, emotional, and coercive control. Support groups like SODA (Survivors of Domestic Abuse) provide a safe space for survivors to come together without judgment and offer empathy, understanding, and support. Coercive control is an important aspect of domestic abuse that is often overlooked. Raising awareness about it is crucial in identifying warning signs and providing support. Reporting domestic abuse can be a difficult and intimidating process, and professionals may not always understand the challenges survivors face. Personal growth and healing after domestic abuse can be a long and individual journey, and forgiveness is a complex and personal decision. It may take time and maturity to reach a point of forgiveness, if at all. BEST MOMENTS "I wanted to highlight and shine a spotlight on coercive control." "It's not that we can't, it's not that we don't want to. It's just not safe." "I think sometimes in the relationship, there's hidden forms of abuse." "I think to a certain degree, yes, I have [forgiven]. But if you'd asked me five, six years ago, it would have been a complete no, no." "I do still share the MTAB quotes on my social media platforms as well, because it's a good way to raise awareness." HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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