The fight is over, the fight called the future! as some have a future and some don't simply because they plan threw others not wisely planning for self, Like having children before getting a job. Leaning on family and friends as well as the mother or father of the children to solely provide for the family, Yes some family traditions still live like this as well as some being more independent as both are providing as working parents! The fight is over as to knowing that if your family tradition is for this ,then maybe a partner more suitable will be one who follows that tradition, if not mental warfare called under a souls spiritual attack! When someone is not prepared coming from rather a family of independent were male/female were taught to go to get a job/career after school.

The mental as well as social structuring can not blend into a  ...