When an Aging Parent Becomes Physically Abusive: Making a Safety Plan

What should you do when an aging parent’s anger becomes physical? In this episode, Esther and Laurie discuss the frightening reality of hitting, pushing, grabbing, throwing objects, blocking exits, and other threatening behavior. They explain how to create a practical safety plan, when to leave, when to call 911, and why dementia or illness may explain aggression without making it safe. This conversation offers caregivers permission to take danger seriously and protect themselves without denying their love for their parent.