The Clues along the way were always there ,

In retrospect I think there are several possible reasons-we miss them.

Lies -Ego- impossible to Believe

Ego: Narcs have huge egos. They really do believe in their own hype. Sometimes they want to exercise their “power” and superiority to see how much they can admit to without any consequences

Anger: this happens a lot with projection

Projection- When you don’t comply with the narc they go as far as to question you on everything

Especially where you are, who you are with

Hack all your accounts

If you

Threats if you leave

They storm out and come enraged

And back outraged

Accusations of Horrible Conduct / selling sex online - etc

Sending vulga ...