Are You Walking Around With a Dating Resume?

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “Of course someone would want me. Look at what I’ve accomplished.”?

We’re often encouraged to become more beautiful, more successful, more educated, more independent and more accomplished. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting any of those things.

But what happens when the things that build our confidence start becoming evidence that we are worthy of love?

In this episode, I unpack the difference between confidence, desirability, access and self-worth. And why being accomplished, attractive, financially independent or successful can change how we experience dating without changing our inherent worth.

I talk about:

• Why achievements can make us feel more confident in the dating pool
• The difference between “I’m proud of what I’ve built” and “I’m worthy because of what I’ve built”
• Why we sometimes feel the need to prove that we are worth choosing