This episode explores why the traditional “routine approach” in paediatric consultations so often leads to confrontation — with the child, with the parent, and even within ourselves as clinicians. By breaking down each phase of the routine workflow, we reveal how well‑intentioned habits can unintentionally create fear, resistance, and conflict.

We cover:

• How ignoring the child during history taking triggers boredom, attention‑seeking, and parent–child tension
• Why long adult conversations set children up to fail before the examination even begins
• How treating the child as a passive object during examination increases fear and resistance
• Why restraint escalates distress and undermines trust
• How ignoring parents’ own ideas and expectations leads to poor adherence at home
• The difference between ...