Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

di Amber Akilla

Società e cultura

Stagione 7

30 things i learnt before 30 pt.2

part two of my 30 things i realised before 30!!! let me know what you thought of this video and if you have any specific topic requests~~ ⁠ subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla ☆ https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla notes: 16. you’ll rarely regret sitting on a purchase, but you’ll probably regret impulse buying 17. when in doubt, always play the long game - conflict 18. actions speak louder than words - make sure you have congruence between your own words and actions so you can vett other people 19. being single and learning to be ok alone is better than being in a shitty relationship 20. you are the sum of the people you surround yourself with - choose carefully - don't care what people think of you in the pursuit of what you love, but don't let your reputation precede you. 21. getting paid more doesnt mean the job itself is more intersting or fulfilling - make sure the extra money you make is spent on things/experiences/people you care about 22. just because you’ve finished formal education, doesn't mean the learning has stopped - its just begun! 23. the only way out is through - discomfort in growth and discipline are required - you cant buy your way into discipline or a better life 24. health is wealth - push yourself but know where the line is 25. familiarise yourself with rejection and failure - its not the absence of these things, its the ability to manage 26. how you think and speak to or about yourself is louder than what anyone else says to you 27. building anything on your own is going to take much longer than just attaching yourself to what already exists but its worth it 28. consult multiple sources don't take advice from anyone you don't consider aspirational, inspirational 29. GATEKEEP your time, energy and body 30. be hot & have fun

30 things i learnt before 30 pt.1

sliving my slife ☆ subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla 1. an authentic life is better than a conventional one 2. embrace your curiosity and your interests 3. the four agreements 4. learn about psychology before getting into political debates 5. learn to emotionally regulate 6. embrace the light and dark - after every flop comes a slay 7. disagreement is ok, dismissal is not 8. other people’s problem with you, is not your problem 9. your new life will cost you your old one 10. nothing is as certain as it seems - leave room for the unexpected 11. talent is worthless without discipline 12. beauty is worthless without brains 13. empathy is worthless without boundaries 14. when people tell you who they are, believe them or at least make a note 15. connection/chemistry cannot trump compatibility and communication

how to be confident & unbothered

hope this helps ^_^ 1. you are bored 1.1 get a life 1.2 find purpose 1.3 80/20 rule 1.4 exercise free will 1.5 get a hobby 1.6 enjoy your life 2. you are a hater 2.1 judgement others & yourself 2.2 work with what you got 2.3 managing insecurity 2.3.1 journalling 2.3.2 personal jokes 2.3.3 #BEREAL 2.4 encourage others 2.5 redefine success 2.6 limit exposure to negativity bonus: people pleasing finale: we’re all gonna die subscribe to friend crush for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

do what you enjoy

guys my video didnt record, please forgive me. we will do better next time :~) anyways lets talk about the importance of doing what you enjoy for self empowerment and understanding. building awareness around how we feel and what we think in order to be hot and have fun yay!! subscribe to my podcast for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

the disrespect is the closure

recent thoughts on closure and the illusion that an another person can give it to you. how can we think about overwhelming emotional experiences and 'closure' in a way that allows us to move forward in healthy and productive ways that facilitate a life of being hot and having fun?? subscribe to the podcast for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

hot girl habits for crazy b*tches ☆

*life when you realize that conventional wisdom does kinda have value* hopefully this video makes some of these habits more appealing to you if you've ever been skeptical about what it might take to help you build the foundation to being hot and having fun!! i was a hater but ... i ran out of excuses and honestly integrating these practices consistently have really changed my life in ways unhealthy overthinking and spiralling could never. any other habits that have changed your life, please leave in the comments! sending love and slay your way xxx subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

Stagione 6

99 - FIGHT BACK (defending against haters)

In this episode, we're diving deeper into the world of haters and exploring strategies to fight back and reclaim our power. Building upon last week's discussion on the general vibe of haters (rancid), we're now delving into actionable steps to address their negativity head-on. Is it worth fighting back against haters, or should our energy be focused elsewhere? How can we maintain our peace of mind when dealing with individuals who seem determined to misunderstand us? These are just some of the questions we'll be addressing in this empowering episode. Bonus: I'm inviting you to send me screenshots of people hating! If I receive enough submissions, I'll do an episode or video reacting to them. So don't hold back – share your experiences and let's turn the tables on the haters together! (Send submissions to the Friend Crush IG (@friend.crush). Tune in now to discover effective strategies for dealing with haters and reclaiming your power in the face of negativity. Don't let the haters get you down – join the conversation and let's rise above (or go to hell) together! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

98 - haters gonna hate: psychology behind criticism & negative feedback

In this podcast episode, we delve into the intriguing topic of dealing with haters – those individuals who seem to go out of their way to criticize and spread negativity. But wait, this isn't your typical discussion on handling constructive criticism; we're focusing specifically on those who are just plain rude and judgmental for no apparent reason. Ever felt like someone made their problem your problem, even when you were simply minding your own business? You're not alone. In this two-part series, we'll explore the psychology behind haters and provide practical strategies for dealing with their unwanted negativity. Part one kicks off by dissecting the mindset of haters, distinguishing between genuine feedback and baseless criticism. We'll discuss how to maintain your peace of mind and emotional well-being when faced with unwarranted negativity, especially from individuals you neither know nor care about. But wait, there's more! Tune in next week for part two, where we'll tackle the age-old question: Should you fight back against haters, and if so, how? Get ready for an empowering discussion on reclaiming your power and setting boundaries in the face of adversity. If you've ever found yourself grappling with the perplexing behavior of haters, this episode is for you. Join us as we unravel the mysteries of negativity and equip you with the tools you need to rise above it. Don't let the haters get you down – tune in now and focus on being hot and having fun! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

97 - girl confessions: visa marriage, divorce, celibacy, living with men

!!! Serious Trigger Warning for SA in this Episode !!! WATCH VIDEO EPISODE : https://youtu.be/_GydjUIgPAM In this episode of "Girl Confessions," our guest Seven bravely shares her deeply personal journey, starting from running away from home in China to embarking on a tumultuous adventure that led her to Canada. She opens up about her experience of entering into a visa marriage, navigating the complexities of divorce, and the emotional toll it took on her. Seven's story isn't just about romantic relationships; it's a rollercoaster ride of self-discovery, one-sided crushes, periods of celibacy, and the intricacies of platonic friendships with men. With candid honesty, she shares the highs and lows of her journey, offering insights into love, loss, and resilience. While Seven's experiences may be unique, her story resonates with anyone who has faced challenges in relationships, struggled with self-acceptance, or embarked on a journey of self-discovery. Join us as we delve into Seven's story, exploring themes of courage, vulnerability, and the pursuit of happiness against all odds. Grab your headphones, buckle up, and prepare for an emotionally charged episode that will leave you inspired and empowered. Tune in now to listen to Seven's extraordinary journey unfold. let me know your thoughts on this episode!! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

96 - leaving your hometown: navigating new beginnings, cutting ties

In this episode, I delve into the personal journey of leaving my hometown, Perth, and the social challenges I faced during that transition. While my departure wasn't the smoothest, I navigated the change as best as I could at the time, and I've come to terms with my actions since then. Leaving one's hometown, especially from a smaller or more isolated place like Perth, can come with a unique set of emotional and social hurdles. I share my experiences, reflections, and insights on starting fresh in a new environment, offering candid a candid perspective and maybe advice for listeners who may be embarking on a similar journey. From coping with homesickness to forging new connections and adapting to unfamiliar surroundings, I cover various aspects of the relocation experience. Whether you're contemplating a move or simply curious about the process, this episode provides a little insights into my journey. Join me as I open up about the realities of leaving one's hometown and offer guidance on embracing change with resilience and grace. Don't miss out on this honest conversation – tune in now! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

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